14-05-2017 10:52 PM
Hey @j95, you most certainly do not deserve to be hurt. You are a great support to many members. I'll be logging off shortly so please do reach out for support and call 000 if needed. Lee / RO
15-05-2017 10:37 AM - edited 15-05-2017 10:39 AM
@Ben-ROwell I was fine until yesterday so yeah this has made everything crap. I'm still not good. And just everything is so stressful right now normally those things bother me forxa little bit then I'm ok but I have so much other stuff to worry about
15-05-2017 10:46 AM
You're definitely tackling a lot right now! There's heaps of really great stuff that you're doing too, but it all takes energy. I can understand why it could be enough to make your lid flip.
Do you need to talk it all out a bit? Or should we focus on stuff that help you get the lid back down? Or something else?
Also sorry for asking all the questions. But here's one more.
I wonder if there's something we could do to help people understand that posts like that are incredibly harmful for people who have survived it? I don't think we have to do it now. But maybe in a week or two when a bit of time has made it less painful to think through?
15-05-2017 10:49 AM
Yeah maybe talking through the stuff might help
And I'm annoyed because like you said I am tackling a lot, I'm always tackling a lot and I'm sick of it.
15-05-2017 10:56 AM
Hmm. Its a good point @j95 you do carry a big load of stuff. Much more than some people carry- although you're quite a bit stronger than a lot of people too.