14-03-2017 06:26 PM
@kittykat30 how're things going with your friend? Have you found you're still able to get along?
Ray, when you're on the Titanic, you load the lifeboats. You don't stop to yell at the iceberg.
@Stealth_ninja I did mean to write something but the browser crashed while I was working
I am trying to figure out how I feel about her. We have training tomorrow (I play in a netball team for my school) and we are supposed to walk with some teachers to get to the courts, which are about 5-10 minutes walk away. She is trying to get everyone to walk with her as she does not want to walk with the school. It's very frustrating for me and I am just trying to ignore her for now. Everything's just a bit much at the moment. I'm just trying to figure how to deal with a lot and I don't want to add more to my plate.
@kittykat30 ugh stupid browser!
I think you're going about it in a really healthy way, definitely avoid taking more on than you need to!
When you say everything is a bit much, how is the self-care going?
I should know the feeling because right now the friend I told you about and I are fighting about something similar to this. I'm trying to distance myself to avoid anything from getting worse and to give myself time to think if our friendship is worth it and to see if I really mean something to her. It'll hurt letting go but it'll hurt even more trying to hold on to her knowing that she could continue to make you feel like this.
Stay strong and think positive! Things will get easier 🙂