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Re: i cant do it anymore :( please help me

And still struggling
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Re: i cant do it anymore :( please help me

Are you still struggling at the moment @scared01?
Casual scribe
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Re: i cant do it anymore :( please help me

yes @N1ghtW1ng

 

its jsut constant, im not getting a break from it today, still partly carrying on from last night and dealing with carers greif as well atm

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Re: i cant do it anymore :( please help me

So do you feel that you need a break? What are some ways you can step back from things?
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Re: i cant do it anymore :( please help me

i cant step back from anything. i thought i could take a step back today. i had my younger sister with me and i was waiting until mum got home  to get her her antibiotics but no, i couldnt do that i kept getting pressured by both my younger sister and mums soon to be hubby. you gotta go get it, go get it, are you going to get it, the quicker she gets it the quicker itll take place in her system to get her better, when you go down the road can you get this can you get that. then mum got home and is till avent ha a break, i had to go get my other sister from school and now i have to feed my horses, i dont want to go there but again ill have to do it @N1ghtW1ng

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Re: i cant do it anymore :( please help me

What about planning a day ahead of time (say the weekend or a day next week) especially for you? Go down somewhere for a break. Tell your family in advance that you'll be gone that day. Do you think that's something you could try?
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Re: i cant do it anymore :( please help me

Ive tried that before but i copped that much slack and abuse from everyone that i decided not to go
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Re: i cant do it anymore :( please help me

That sucks @scared01. Do you think maybe instead of reserving a whole day for yourself, you could start with a smaller period of time, like an hour?

My freedom is an agreement with myself. It's an acceptance and love for who I am that isn't dependent on performance or the will of other people - Renee Yohe
Casual scribe
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Re: i cant do it anymore :( please help me

Maybe @letitgo

My free time is usually going to appointment or when im doing my art but everyone is still around me anyway
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Re: i cant do it anymore :( please help me

what kind of art do you do @scared01? could you maybe do it in the park or some other spot where you could be alone for an hour or something? sorry - just jumped in mid-conversation

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