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I lost a friendship, over another friend, feeling really upset

@scared01and everyone else

 

Hey guys,

 

So I’m happy and all with my new boyfriend but, today I lost a friendship over a fight, me and my friend had, it was over another friend,and I’m lost without this friend, idk what to do💔😩😭

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Also I’m sad about it bcuz I had been friends with them for ages and they left me💔😭😩

 

i feel like something is wrong with me honestly

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im sorry youve lost a friend @Cheeseburger i can imagine that would be really hard for you.
do you think you could talk to this friend about the argument and try to resolve your differences?
**NEVER be afraid to ask for help because you're WORTH it!**

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hey @Cheeseburger It's been a few days, how are you feeling now? 

 

Have you talked to your friend as @scared01 suggested?

 

Let us know xx

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Hey @scared01 I tried talking to them when they left me but all o got was abuse from them...💔😢😭, I’m trying to get past it but it’s hard honestly.

 

The other day I wanted to just give up, I still do a little as it’s getting harder, and I’m getting a lot of hate for being Pansexual😢

 

Hey @lennycat2017 no I haven’t talked to my friend, as I found out that they were only using me.... I’ve been struggling a lot I’m lost without this friend, but I’m trying to keep strong. I have my bf and my family to keep me strong

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im sorry you got abuse from them @Cheeseburger
i can imagine it would be pretty hard to move on from but im glad youve got supports in place to help you through.
**NEVER be afraid to ask for help because you're WORTH it!**

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Hi @Cheeseburger! I'm really sorry to hear you had that experience. Rejection can be physically painful. I have had similar experiences where people have used me and then turned on me, making out like it's my fault. I still get angry about these experiences because I did heaps for them and didn't feel appreciated in return. In life, there will always be difficult people like that.

I think it was a brave and mature thing for you to try to talk to them and resolve your differences, even if it didn't work out. That doesn't mean you failed. Maybe this person just wasn't very mature. They might also have a personal problem or might not be good at communicating. I believe someone who did this to me recently had a problem with imaging how other people would feel, so they didn't realise how hurtful their actions would be and that they were being rude. And that had nothing to do with me. I'm sure that you'll be able to move forward and find more supportive people eventually. I like to think of some of my experiences as dodged bullets.

It's good that you're able to turn to your family and boyfriend. They sound really supportive. When I had similar experiences, I found that venting to my family really helped me. I would also write letters to the people who hurt me explaining how I felt to make sense of my feelings, but without actually sending them.

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@scared01  I’m trying my absolute best not to give up, without this friend but honestly it’s getting harder and harder everyday

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@WheresMySquishy  rejection has always been a issue with me, and it hurts more as I never can be accepted, I’ve had rejection all thru my life and it’s getting worse.

 

I tried my best to get them to forgive me but it didn’t work, so I’m gonna try and move on from it (it’s so hard)

 

with my boyfriend, he’s been the best, he supports me and doesn’t make me feel like I’m not good enough, my family are always supportive of me, I rant to my boyfriend about my “friends” and it helps.

 

My boyfriend makes me the happiest person in the world, he says cute things and I’m falling more and more in love with him everyday, I’ve also never felt this way for a guy before so I’m sorta scared I don’t know if it’s a good thing or not. (I could really use some help with understanding this emotion)

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i can imagine it would be very difficult @Cheeseburger
can you perhaps try to make some new friends
**NEVER be afraid to ask for help because you're WORTH it!**