I need help
Ive got a friend who has said that he doesn’t want to be friends because I apparently I have a shitty attitude towards life. I don’t think I do but if I do I have good reasons for my attitude. Can anyone give me some advice on how to deal with this.
Re: I need help
That wouldn't have been a nice thing to hear. Did you friend elaborate on what they mean by that?
It can be hard when your are having trouble with friends but I have found that having a conversation about what's troubling both of you can really help get everything out in the open to mend the friendship.
Re: I need help
I am currently having trouble with a friend myself
Not because of the same reasons as you however I do know that you just need to remember that it's not your fault you are not friends anymore that it is possibly his miss-understanding. You just need to be yourself and if people can't understand that then that's on them. You never need to stop being YOU!
Hope all is well for yo at moment
I need help again
I have a problem involving everyone i know. Because of everything thats happened to me everyone thinks its ok to treat me like a child and im really sick of it. Everyone tries to do everything for me, they are always saying thier worried about me and they always say im prone to making bad decisions. Someone give me advice please.
Re: I need help again
That sounds frustrating. Is it both your friends and family treating you like this? Have you tried to tell them that you don't like it? Maybe if they knew how you feel they would stop treating you like a child.
Is there something in particular that makes them worried about you? Talking the situation out may help to alleviate their concerns about you and then the behaviours could stop.
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