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Re: Is it just me

hi @Lonelyboy17
im sorry to hear about your friendship situation, SpaceJam has given some good advice.
can i ask does the friend who said that to you have other friends?
the reason i ask is perhaps shes feeling quite down and insecure about herself ie- 'am i worth having friends' Becasue youve said its out of the blue, im also thinking it might not be in her nature to push others away and is trying to cope with something?
**NEVER be afraid to ask for help because you're WORTH it!**

Re: Is it just me

Hey man thanks , yeah she does have friends I think I’m going to talk to her to get the bottom of this .

Re: Is it just me

that sounds like a good idea @lonleyboy17
i hope the chat goes well and you can move forward as friends even if your not as close as you once were.
**NEVER be afraid to ask for help because you're WORTH it!**

Re: Is it just me

I agree. I also suggest, if you can't find the solution to this issue, talk to someone you trust.

Re: Is it just me

Let us know how you go with the chat, hopefully it goes well Smiley Happy 

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Re: Is it just me

Hey sorry for late reply the chat went well I think , she said we are still friends and she said she just felt like I was on her toes a bit much , she also said something that didn’t really make sense to me , she said she doesn’t like people in her life constantly , what does it mean when someone says they don’t like people in there life constantly .

Re: Is it just me

I don't actually know @Lonelyboy17.
I guess with the current situation I'm in, She is saying that she needs some space. Or she just doesn't want to hurt your feelings, but she may not want to be your friend...
But let's not get to that point shall we?
That's how I interpreted it.
I am not a great person at solving problems like this, so I suggest going to see someone you trust, and telling them about it. That's the best I can do. @spacejam might have some better ideas. I am still here for you if you need. I'll always listen, and give my best advice.

Re: Is it just me

Hi @Lonelyboy17, what she said might have sounded hurtful but remember, it's not your fault. Some people need to take a break and 'recharge' after socialising and she could be one of them. It definitely doesn't sound like you did anything to upset her. I hope that you can still be friends and support each other. Smiley Happy

Re: Is it just me

hi @Lonelyboy17
just checking in to see how your going?
**NEVER be afraid to ask for help because you're WORTH it!**

Re: Is it just me

Hey @Lonelyboy17 well done on having a chat with your friend, these kinds of conversations can be hard sometimes and that took a lot of courage on your part. I think @WheresMySquishy made a good point, some people do need to 'recharge' and be alone for a little bit. Whereas others 'recharge' by being with others. Maybe that is what she meant when she says she doesn't like people in her life constantly? You could possibly ask her what she meant by that, does that sound like something she would respond to? 

 

How did you feel after having the chat with your friend?