Redheads goals

[redhead]

Update on my goals.

I achieved goal 1 and saw my case manager today.

[DruidChild]

Those are such amazing goals @redhead and it's incredibly well done that you've already achieved the first one. I'm so glad you're safe - hopefully your cm was helpful. 

[redhead]

Update on goals: my name change is official now, I just have to figure out how to change everything now lol

[DruidChild]

That's so exciting @redhead!!! I hope having your name changed officially makes you feel good I'm so proud of you.

[redhead]

Been thinking about my goals as again, here's an updated list (practically same just crossed a few off I achieved/weren't relevant anymore)


My goals
Get referral to gender clinic.

Physio
-do exercises and remind myself things take time

Mid term
Focus on therapy

Join bridge club (scrapping this goal, it's not relevant to my schedule anymore I'm gonna miss it tho, maybe another time)

Hang out with dad once a week

Find new accommodation
-get stuff organised for move
-find temporary accommodation while I wait for housing to come up.

Get more stable and reduce hospital admissions
-I don't know what this will look like but take things a day at a time
-manage suicide risk so I don't constantly end up in hospital.

manage psychosis better

Long term
Become a mod on ro

Get on hormones

Get back to uni next year

Get my psychology degree and get into honours
-distinction average (eek)

Do some travelling

Get a job

Have a partner
-learn self love too

[Bree-RO]

This is simply amazing @redhead. I specifically like the last one - self love.

It's becoming more apparent to me, practicing self love really does help with a lot of other challenges in life. What does self love look like to you?  

How are you feeling after updating these goals?

[redhead]

@Bree-RO self love for me is about accepting myself, acknowledging the good and bad bits, and finding good things I like about myself, having fun with my hobbies and learning my flaws, it's about being ok in my skin.

And it feels good to have some updated from last time. I like being goal oriented

[honky]

That's awesome @redhead, love the goals ! I especially love your long term goal to travel  What are some places you have in mind?

[redhead]

@honky I want to go back to Europe, I didnt get to see much when I was there. I also want to go to Cuba, Russia, Iceland, Egypt, pretty much everywhere.
I plan to take time off after uni to travel around Australia. I guess that's another goal.