recently my friend has been very hot and cold with me and this has been making me feel bad as i do not know whether we are friends still because somedays they like talking to me and somedays they come off as not wanting to talk to me at all and when i ask them why they do this they say it has nothing to do with me even though they act normal around their other friends and this hurts me cause it really does seemingly be about me when they act weird around me but no one else , is it wrong to call them out on this . i texted them ( because i hate confrontation ) telling them that them being hot and cold all the time with me makes me feel shit and if they could please just tell me why they do this .
is it wrong to call out my friend like this , i mean their actions are hurting my feelings as a person .
Sounds like your friends are changing from being 'hot' and 'cold' with you frequently and it is becoming confusing for you and its hurting your feelings. Sometimes face-to-face conversations can be difficult and confronting and texting can be a safe segway into developing a converstaion around the issues your having. Fantastic @Lonelyboy17 for being assertive towards how you feel and voicing it. Therefor, i do not think you are in the wrong