Hi @haidarahmad313 ,
Thank you for reaching out and sharing what is happening for you right now. It sure does sound confusing and it is understandable why are seeking support from the community.
We read that you have communicated with her many times about what is happening. Do you think she is aware that she is being inconsistent? For example, have you told her, "You said you are going to treat me with respect and love, but then you push me away. I don't understand." Perhaps she is not even aware she is contradicting her own words? What do you think?
Also, in terms of better communication, you may want to have a read through this. It may support you in being able to better communicate what you are feeling about her actions.
We'd be interested to hear whether you think any of these communication strategies will help.