Hey so I'm back again 😂
I am quite proud to say my efforts to remain vigilante have some what payed off. All the drama has subsided and I even was contacted by one of the members of the group and given an apology as well as a sort of promise to support me in the future.
However with my neurotypical brain, I often come across issues that confuse me.
In this case it is the same group of people (shocker 😂)
This issue comprises of two people, lets just call one person (person a) and the other (person b)
I have had a previous relationship with person a, which didn't end amazing because it was partially due to them stating how (quote from them directly) 'We dont live together so it would be a waste of time' which was their response to me asking them to perhaps read about my cognitive disabilities (adhd and aspergers) {Also please forgive me if i spell stuff wrong} we had a few issues with a lack of practically respect but ultimitly remained friends as we had been for several years prior to us dating. Person b has spoken to me about how they dont want to date person a and would actually pick person a's friend if given a choice which I see as wrong since person b told me not to tell person a. as in public and with each other person b has never told person a. person b has also told me they find stuff i do with person a uncomfortable for person b, as me and person a dated. but as i see it, person b has no right to tell me these things, because for one, me and person a are allowed to be friends and nothing I have done I see as bad, and most importantly, person b doesn;t even want to fully date person a, (and honestly person b only really speaks of person a as their physical features being their best attribute which i see as also another red flag) Person a however has also made comments which are kinda sus, like randomly bringing up our relationship with person b and telling person b that they are threatened by me due to me and person a's history.
What do you guys think, because I dont see it is a sign person a showing signs that they would leave person b for me (not like id let them) but also I think person b has no durestiction to tell me what to do as they dont see them and person a as a serious thing and person a is actually their second choice.
please give me advice or help me unpack this, because I find it all very confusing for me