Help! I think I'm being lied too...By One Of My Best Friends
The was this boy. lets call him Tony. tony and I hooked up once casually about 4 months ago he said he really liked me. Is been a while and my bff(taylor) and i were chatting about finding someone to hook up with and and both said Tony. We agreed I would ask first and she would go after me. I asked tony and he just said he wanted to but he couldn t and that I would find out soon. So I don t know why but taylor and Tony have been going off alone together 2x so far. I asked taylor if she had asked to hookup get and she says no but she is always honest with me but i feel like she might be lying. and Tony doesn’t know that we both want to hook up he only knows that I do. And tony, Taylor and I have been friends for 3 years. HELP!
That situation sounds really complicated and tough. It's hard not to feel jealous when your friends talk to your crush. Relationships can sometimes get in the way of friendships.
I can't give you any specific advice on here. But it could help to think of other possibilities why your BFF and crush have been talking to each other alone. I don't know much about the context of your situation but it could be something innocent. For example, maybe they are tutoring each other. Thinking of other possibilities might help you feel a bit better. Are there any signs that your BFF is lying other than your intuition?
Re: Help! I think I'm being lied too...By One Of My Best Friends
Hey @IhaveAQuestion! I'm going to move your message to our "Tough Times" section as I think you would be able to get more of the advice that you need there. I hope that is okay! I agree with @WheresMySquishy, this situation sounds really tricky and I echo their question of whether you think there are any signs that your BFF is lying to you.
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