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Re: TW life seems too hard

hey @Bananatime04

What sort of advice were you looking for?

Re: TW life seems too hard

Hi @Bananatime04 sorry that I haven't been on the forums lately. I have read the last few posts on this thread. I am online now to talk with you about whatever you need <3

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Ahhh whoops! I didn’t see your post.. can you still help? If you don’t see it tonight, can you help with it tomorrow?

A guy told me I am fat even tho I’m really underweight and I need help thinking about what to do now and I got really offended and was saying that I’d self harm and his response was no you wouldn’t and it was so triggering and I am safe at the moment, just need some help. What do you think @dncinginthedirt?

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Hey @Andrea-RO sorry I didn’t see your post! And I’ve also never seen your name.. am I going crazy or have I just not talked to you before?
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omg what a piece of **** he is!!!!!!!! i'm so angry that he has said those things to you!

 

Whoever he is I suggest you block him so he can't tell you anymore toxic lies. There is clearly nothing positive that can come from this person.

 

How do you know him? Is there a way you can make him accountable for his actions by telling a parent or school?

 

It is extremely abusive what he has said to you and it is NOT ok. It sounds as though he has every intention of causing you harm.

 

I can relate to you feeling like self-harming as a way to "prove" your mental health issues. When I first self-harmed it was because a psycho guy I was seeing devalued my depression so I self-harmed and showed him and he just called me stupid Smiley Sad 

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Ohh I’m so sorry he done that.. also you may be told to edit ‘cut’ out of that because I done that a few times and got banned again and I really don’t want to not be able to talk to you again!

But what if he’s right? What if I am fat? 
I don’t really know him well..

@dncinginthedirtI’ve missed talking to you so much! I love chatting with you and now I’m crying because it’s nearly May!!

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Hey @Bananatime04

I am really sorry that you had to experience that, it was really unfair for that bot to say such things. @dncinginthedirt had some really great advice about going to see a teacher, school, or parent about the issue. 

I think you already know the answer about whether to either self-harm in retaliation to what's happened. As much as this boy's words hurt you, hurting yourself won't change the situation, it only makes things worse for yourself. I think a much better idea would be to talk to someone about how you feel on the issue. You know that you can always come and talk about how you feel on the forums. You can also talk to some hotlines, like KHL or the Butterfly Foundation, which specialises in helping those with eating disorders Heart 

 

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Okay I'll edit that word out. Thanks for the tip!

 

Please don't do anything to harm yourself Smiley Sad You'll have let that bully win if you do that. 

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@Bananatime04, I also just edited your last post as it was being too specific about your eating disorder

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@Andrea-ROMy khl counsellor is done for the day and I hate the butterfly foundations queue! It’s always on 1 but takes like an hour! I’d fall asleep in that time but thanks for the suggestion. I am safe but I just wanted to talk to @dncinginthedirt about it because she’s smart. I’m also too embarrassed to tell anyone because if I do then someone that I know in person will find out about my eating issues. I just need a chat x