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What do I do

I've been dating this guy for 11 months and I love him so so much he's my everything we spend every single minute together. Lately I've been sad and he feels that he can't make me happy anymore. Recently he's been ditching me for his friends who all hate me, he hasn't Nantes to be around me. He hasn't been as sweet and kind and stuff and he's been talking to other girls a lot more. Last night he told me that he doesn't feel the same way he used to about me and that being with me has been hard for him. We always have heaps of fights and i just feel like he doesn't love me anymore. Last night he was going to break up with me and after he said that I was shattered I cried so much I couldn't breathe anymore and I told him I couldn't live without him and then after that he kept saying that he loved me but I feel like he didn't mean it and was only saying it because if he left me and I suicided or something it would be his fault. I don't want to be with someone who doesn't love me. He deserves better, I don't want to drag him down. I just don't know what to think or feel or do or anything 

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Hey @Drake123455ggg! I am so sorry to hear about what's happening for you. To feel very very in love with someone and then to find that they aren't feeling the same way is one of the most painful things you can experience Smiley Sad we hear you and how hard things are right now Smiley Sad.

 

I am sending some people your way to talk through this a bit more with you, in the mean time. You mentioned that you feel like you couldn't live without him, I am wondering; have you felt like ending your life?

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Hey there i just wanted to check in and see how ur doing since Friday? @Drake123455ggg

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Hey, sorry to hear things haven't been going as well. How have you been feeling since then? Have there been any updates regarding your situation?

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Hey @Drake123455ggg how are you feeling today? We are all here to support you if you wanted to give us an update Heart

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Good thanks he wrote me a 2 page note saying how much he loves me and all that but idk it's just hard to forget what he said 

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I'm glad to hear things are going well @Drake123455ggg Smiley Happy Have you tried speaking to him about how what he said made you feel?

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Yeah he told me he rly does love me and didn't know what he was thinking and loves me too much to leave and stuff 

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Hey @Drake123455ggg it's good that you've been able to talk to him about all this. Maybe you could come up with some strategies to make the situation easier for you both?

e.g. schedule in some time for you to hang out together, or let him know what he could do to help when you're not feeling so great.

What do you think? 

// Spiral outward, keep going. //

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Hey @Drake123455ggg sorry to hear about the current situation. I can understand how that feels from a past relationship for myself. I see you got to have a talk with your partner and things seem to be better. How are you doing today? Feel free to hit me up if you want to chat. Here if you need it xo