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Hi @Nightruner23, if you think you need to get closure and your ex is happy to talk, then you could try that. Otherwise, some self-care could be in order: get outside and do something physical like play sport or go for a walk, hang out with friends, or participate in hobbies.
In my own experience the best healer for a breakup is time.
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I'm sorry @Nightruner23 but there not much you can do if she doesn't want to talk to you. So yeah, it is best to let her go. I mean you can't wait forever hoping she will talk to you you know? She's moving on with her life and you should too.
When should you go back to dating? Well that depends on you. Some people date straight away, some people wait, maybe years between they date again. It's up to you; whether you're comfortable dating others right now.
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