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Re: [CHAT] Dealing with Conflict

Hey @j95 thanks for joining in Smiley Happy
I agree with the way you explained that. Very true too difference of opinion and thoughts.
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Hi @j95, good to have you! And that's an excellent point - just because things are different doesn't mean therew will always be conflict, it's from them not fitting together

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@tsnyder

I think it's not always the cause, but can keep it going once it's started. Or make a small difference a big fight. 

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@Derpington yeah definitely, like 'a mountain out of a mole-hill situation'

 

Okay, question 2:

2. Can you remember the last conflict you had? Tell us how you dealt with it

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Yes very true @Derpington it can be like you havent done the dishes into a full blown argument and no communication.
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Hey @Derpington@tsnyder @ruenhonx @j95!

Welcome! 

@J95 

I never reall thought about conflict within one's own self in the same way as i think about it between people. Hmmm really interesting way of seeing it. I like! 

 

@Derpington

Yeah I agree, I think it's hard to separate stress out from one situation to another. And then suddenly you might accidentally blow up at someone who probably didn't really deserve it! Oops...

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2. Can you remember the last conflict you had? Tell us how you dealt with it

 

I had a pretty big disagreement with my running coach over an injury prognosis.  I tried to remain calm, listen and say my piece, and then I did my own thing.

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Can you remember the last conflict you had? Tell us how you dealt with it

Oh the last one was probably with my cousin, I cant remember the most recent one but we always have arguments. I have dealt with them but just going quiet. If I cant sway someone's opinion or get them to understand mine then I feel there is no point. I honestly suck at conflict resolution sometimes.

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@ruenhonx that's interesting! But I feel like if you both approach a conflict with that mindset then how will it be resolved?

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The last big conflict i had was with my mum she told me I couldn't go to my girlfriends place because i didn't clean the kitchedn. I said I was going to go anyway. Then i went. Which i guess means i won.