@Asche I completely agree with you - I think Tinder just takes traditional dating means and makes it more convenient. Now we can 'pick up someone at the bar' when we're even just sitting on the toilet! 
@cupcakes_032 Those are some interesting questions you pointed out.
"When's the best time to bring it up?" I think this is different depending on the situation, but I always try to bring it up when I feel like my personal feelings have progressed. For example, if I'm starting to like this person more, I might want to ask them what we actually are.
"Will asking about it make the other person feel uncomfortable?" I guess this is a huge concern and the main reason why we are so scared of asking, but I think that we will have to go through with the question anyway, and I think most relationships are better for asking. If they want to continue to the next stage, then it's all the better that you asked them when you did. If they didn't, then at least you didn't waste any time!
And @nc_reachout13, good night! Thanks for your great comments.
@cupcakes_032 Those are some interesting questions you pointed out.
"When's the best time to bring it up?" I think this is different depending on the situation, but I always try to bring it up when I feel like my personal feelings have progressed. For example, if I'm starting to like this person more, I might want to ask them what we actually are.
"Will asking about it make the other person feel uncomfortable?" I guess this is a huge concern and the main reason why we are so scared of asking, but I think that we will have to go through with the question anyway, and I think most relationships are better for asking. If they want to continue to the next stage, then it's all the better that you asked them when you did. If they didn't, then at least you didn't waste any time!
And @nc_reachout13, good night! Thanks for your great comments.
How difficult can it be to know what you and the person you date want out of the relationship? (gonna answer all questions in one question! 
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Probably very difficult to quite easy. As with everything, it depends. In some relationships, the partners are open with each other about wants and/or needs however when they aren't, it can be a difficult thing to bring up. Some could do it at the beginning of a relationship, especially in online dating where facial and vocal expressions and body language aren't there. So then, at the beginning you could bring it up but then, it's all about when you are ready. Your partner might even bring it up with you first. It might make the other person uncomfortable when you ask, but sometimes you need to. Of course, if it's an incomfortable issue, it's fine to take a step back and maybe plan to make another time when you are both ready to talk about it.
)Probably very difficult to quite easy. As with everything, it depends. In some relationships, the partners are open with each other about wants and/or needs however when they aren't, it can be a difficult thing to bring up. Some could do it at the beginning of a relationship, especially in online dating where facial and vocal expressions and body language aren't there. So then, at the beginning you could bring it up but then, it's all about when you are ready. Your partner might even bring it up with you first. It might make the other person uncomfortable when you ask, but sometimes you need to. Of course, if it's an incomfortable issue, it's fine to take a step back and maybe plan to make another time when you are both ready to talk about it.
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