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jvkn
Star contributor

originally posted on 01-06-2015 9:56 PM

Thank you for joining us for what has been another awesome GR sesh. See you next week Monday 8PM AEST.

 

 

Today we spoke about:

 

Allocating and prioritising enough time and love to different aspects of your life that include: school, work, hobbies, friends, and family. It is also about maintaining healthy mental, physical and emotional health, which includes sleeping well.

 

Good grades, social life and sleep are all important factors that contribute to living a well balanced life- but as discussed, there are more factors that need to be considered.

 

Looking after yourself to try and stay balanced can include treating yourself to that extra slice of pizza, going for walks, being creative, binge watching copious amounts of TV, meditating and exercising.

 

Making checklists, using a diary, cutting back on responsibilities/knowing your limits and asking for help are vital ways to make sure you’re not overwhelmed by everyday responsibilities.

 

Yoga, mindfulness, meditation and sports are great mental well-being exercises to help with maintaining balance.

 

Balance is different for everyone, often we find ourselves seeking to meet unrealistic representations of what a balanced life looks like- do what works for you!

 

Often we learn vicariously through other people how to lead a balanced life- our friends, TV stars, and our family members. They can inspire us to take more action in making sure we stay cool, calm and collected to lead well-balanced lives.

 

Some advice we’d like to give someone who is struggling to find balance is:

-Not to stress over trying to be perfect. Do what works for you!

-and… to “ jump onto this forum and read all of the amazing suggestions that we have made tonight!! Haha”

 

 

Did you find tonight’s chat interesting? Keen to know more? Check out the links below:

 

 

See you next week!

 

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sometimes it rains, sometimes it shines, this is how flowers grow
jvkn
Star contributor

originally posted on 01-06-2015 9:58 PM

@j95 @FootyFan26 Thanks for joining us tonight, Love & appreciate your input.

Have a good night and an awesome week!
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sometimes it rains, sometimes it shines, this is how flowers grow
FootyFan26
Uber contributor

originally posted on 01-06-2015 9:59 PM

Was it only us two left?!

 

Yeah I really enjoyed this session, thanks for the chat!

originally posted on 01-06-2015 10:07 PM

Sorry guys. I got caught up with last minute planning for an event later this week. Hope everyone had an awesome chat and see you all in a fortnight? (public holiday?)


My entire life can be described in one sentence: It didn't go as planned and that's okay. ツ
bessie94
Star contributor

originally posted on 01-06-2015 9:57 PM

Thanks so much everyone for joining in - I had such a good time talking about everything! Until next week, good night!!!!
jvkn
Star contributor

originally posted on 01-06-2015 9:46 PM

You guys have been so awesome tonight! Smiley Happy Smiley Happy Smiley Happy

 

to wrap things up here's our final question:

 

What advice would you give someone who is struggling to find balance?

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sometimes it rains, sometimes it shines, this is how flowers grow
FootyFan26
Uber contributor

originally posted on 01-06-2015 9:52 PM

What advice would you give someone who is struggling to find balance?

 

I think I'm the one who needs the advice! Smiley Tongue

 

Just not stressing over trying to be perfect is the main one.  There is no Perfect and some people need to be shown that.

jvkn
Star contributor

originally posted on 01-06-2015 9:41 PM

WHO is someone you really idolise in your life, that you think has great balance? How do you think they acheive that?

 

I can't remember where i came accross this quote but it went a little something like this "You have the same amount of hours a day as Beyonce, make them count".

 

This ressonated with me as she is someone who seems to have it all! she has a successful career, beautiful husband and child and seems to have a great and balanced life. 

 

We have the same amount of time in a day as her... i interpret this as we can achieve greatness if we allocated our time to striving for success and making sure we fit in enough time to look after ourselves in the process. 

 

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sometimes it rains, sometimes it shines, this is how flowers grow
bessie94
Star contributor

originally posted on 01-06-2015 9:43 PM

@jvkn this is very true! but like @FootyFan26 said, sometimes comparing ourselves can make us feel shittier 😕 haha we can't all be like beyonce... or can we 😛

originally posted on 01-06-2015 9:46 PM

@bessie94 I do a lot of comparing and because of my negative attitude that's all I do. I always think that I'll never be like them - handing all assignments in on time and getting 90+s on everything. It makes me even more angry at myself for not making the most out of the education that I'm grateful for having.
j95
Uber contributor

originally posted on 01-06-2015 9:50 PM

@FootyFan26 i think i might make a post about footy and who people barrack for and their favourite players and stuff, so look out for it 😉
//You can stay afraid, or slit the throat of fear and be brave//
FootyFan26
Uber contributor

originally posted on 01-06-2015 9:54 PM

@j95 funny that. I was thinking the same thing!

originally posted on 01-06-2015 9:50 PM

Yeah i do that too @FootyFan26 but try not to be so hard on yourself - you are amazing for just handing the assignment in haha sometimes it is hard to make the most out of it, its just important that we are trying and it sounds like you are aware and defs trying!!

What advice would i give to someone who is struggling to find balance? I would tell them to jump onto this forum and read all of the amazing suggestions that we have made tonight!! haha

originally posted on 01-06-2015 9:54 PM

@bessie94 that's the thing I don't hand them in and it makes me feel like total shit. (am I even allowed to say that!)

It makes it worse to the point where I need to see a counsellor.

originally posted on 01-06-2015 9:55 PM

@FootyFan26 of course you are allowed to say that! haha i think we need to make a new thread about handling uni and assignments and tips to better ourselves, it defs would be a good idea!

originally posted on 01-06-2015 9:58 PM

@bessie94 I'm actually in secondary school. I don't think I plan on going to Uni to be honest. Hopefully the help I get at School will help me produce better work and be more like the organised dudes and dudettes.

See I'm comparing myself to them right now!
j95
Uber contributor

originally posted on 01-06-2015 10:06 PM

Thanks everyone!!
//You can stay afraid, or slit the throat of fear and be brave//
j95
Uber contributor

originally posted on 01-06-2015 9:42 PM

WHO is someone you really idolise in your life, that you think has great balance? How do you think they acheive that?

I dont really have an answer to this to be honest!
//You can stay afraid, or slit the throat of fear and be brave//
FootyFan26
Uber contributor

originally posted on 01-06-2015 9:44 PM

Yeah @j95 I also don't have a person I idolise for their organisation and balance.

I do however idolise a lot of footy players and try to play may games like them, enjoying every moment and giving it my all.
j95
Uber contributor

originally posted on 01-06-2015 9:46 PM

thats true @FootyFan26 who do you idolise? i think mine would be adam goodes, with all the recent controversy and what happened over the weekend its only made me like him even more, being proud of your indigenous culture is awesome and its inspired me to be proud!
//You can stay afraid, or slit the throat of fear and be brave//
FootyFan26
Uber contributor

originally posted on 01-06-2015 9:50 PM

@j95 yeah Goodes is a great idol for many. I think one of my faves is The Tomahawk, Selwood and Jobe Watson for their leadership skills. The Malthouse controversy is very interesting too. I don't think he should have gotten sacked.
Goodes really is a great role model for all.
jvkn
Star contributor

originally posted on 01-06-2015 9:18 PM

Small but efficient steps are great to achieve balance- great ideas guys!

 

Time for our next question:

 

What are some mental wellbeing exercises you think you could practice when feeling like you don't have enough balance in your life? Meditation, self care, mindfulness?

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FootyFan26
Uber contributor

originally posted on 01-06-2015 9:22 PM

What are some mental wellbeing exercises you think you could practice when feeling like you don't have enough balance in your life? Meditation, self care, mindfulness?

 

As I said before, being grateful for the small things in life is what I like to do.

I also use the smiling mind app sometimes which is great to relax

 

I usually don't use these things though I like to focus on footy and look forward to it and when I can play the drums.  Getting out on the field more often would help me to let go of small things that I get angry over or worry about which would give me more balance.

bessie94
Star contributor

originally posted on 01-06-2015 9:20 PM

Meditation is AMAZING!!! really helps me. sometimes I do it before bed and i get such a good nights sleep