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[CHAT] Body image & health at every size!

Body image is one of the major issues that we all face in different ways every day. Regardless of weight and height, it is always in our minds and we always want to be different or to want what other's have. Whether it's losing weight, gaining weight or having muscles we are always striving for what we think is better, to the point that it might break down our sense of self and bring down our self esteem


Health at Every Size (HAES) is a peaceful movement that acknowledges that it is very important to be healthy but that does not mean that a particular size cannot be healthy. It supports that people of all sizes can adopt healthy behaviours. 

 

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Accepting your body the way that it is, takes so much strength and power. Full acceptance means letting go of society's ideas of how we should be and also loving ourselves the way we are without comparison, and this is so hard to do. I'm sure if I asked you guys what do you want to change about yourself, you could write a long list without hesitation, but if I asked what do you love about your body, some of you might stop and think for a while. 
 
So what can we do about this? How can we love ourselves more and accept ourselves more every day? Come join us in this GR session, where we explore what it means to be Healthy at Every Size, and can we sign up to this and change our lives and our bodies and our minds forever?

 

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Before you come to the session, check this out for more information on HAES -  cant wait to have this chat on Monday 4th May at 8pm. 

ruenhonx
ruenhonxPosted 29-04-2015 05:34 PM

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CeeGee
CeeGeePosted 04-05-2015 08:40 PM

The effects of pop culture on guys is really underestimated and really easy to over look when you don't identify as such, which makes me sad because it's not good enough that they don't feel supported/feel like it's okay to be supported

 

I never really stopped properly til my guy started to feel the pressure to pull of the athletica look/lifestyle. It genuinely does make him feel inadequate and that's really just not okay

 
 
ruenhonx
ruenhonxPosted 04-05-2015 08:43 PM
You are so right @CeeGee it is definitely not okay and guys are always underestimated but they probably have it as bad or worse than women.
 
 
 
stonepixie
stonepixiePosted 04-05-2015 08:46 PM
It's actually quite funny, I see all these buff athletic types everywhere but I don't find them attractive at all. Stay strong guys against the pull to be like that. Not all girls are attracted to that type.
 
 
florenceforever
florenceforeverPosted 04-05-2015 08:41 PM

It really isn't Ceegee, I definitely agree with you. To be honest, I don't think I've given it as much thought and attention as it deserves.

 
 
 
florenceforever
florenceforeverPosted 04-05-2015 08:43 PM

Wow guys, we had some very interesting and insightful answers from that last question 🙂 really made me think!

Next one:

  1.  Have you taken any steps towards better accepting your body?
 
 
 
 
stonepixie
stonepixiePosted 04-05-2015 08:49 PM

Have you taken any steps towards better accepting your body?

 

Well I mentioned earlier my pores. To be honest it wasn't until I saw that buzzfeed article on the dermatologist who posts videos of blackheads being popped on insta that I stopped thinking of them as huge. 

 

I try to focus on the good bits rather than the bad.

 
 
 
 
 
florenceforever
florenceforeverPosted 04-05-2015 08:52 PM

I think that's a very sensible approach stonepixie 🙂 

 

I don't know if my pores are big or not - it's probably best I don't find out!

 
 
 
 
 
ruenhonx
ruenhonxPosted 04-05-2015 09:01 PM

What do you think about the concept of being ‘healthy at every size’ (that supports people in adopting health habits for the sake of health and well-being (rather than weight control)?

 
 
 
 
 
stonepixie
stonepixiePosted 04-05-2015 09:10 PM

What do you think about the concept of being ‘healthy at every size’ (that supports people in adopting health habits for the sake of health and well-being (rather than weight control)?

 

I think it is amazing! I love the concept and not everyone is a size 8 when they are fit as fit can be. I know a girl who is atleast 2 sizes bigger than me, yet she is more fit than I am. Weight control is so dangerous because there is so much at state. There is more to a person than a number on a scale and that number may be unrealistic for their body type. This is why I hate (Uh! I used  the word HATE!) the Biggest Loser so much!

 
 
 
 
 
florenceforever
florenceforeverPosted 04-05-2015 09:12 PM

So true stonepixie. I know I'm a lot fitter and eat healthier than a lot of people I know who are smaller than me. In the long run I'm hopefully the one who will benefit because I try and take care of my body

 
 
 
 
 
ruenhonx
ruenhonxPosted 04-05-2015 09:12 PM
The Biggest Loser is scary because losing weight at that rate and like that is scary and not healthy at all. I stopped watching it, I just couldnt get over how unsafe it was. @stonepixie
 
 
 
 
 
stonepixie
stonepixiePosted 04-05-2015 09:13 PM
@ruenhonx it is disgusting and what they use to aid weight loss is very bad for the digestive system.
 
 
 
 
 
florenceforever
florenceforeverPosted 04-05-2015 09:18 PM

6. What are some healthy behaviours you do for your body?

 

  • Eat well (90% of the time!)
  • Exercise and stay active
  • Make sure I get at least 8 hours sleep each night
  • Make sure I'm hydrated
  • Make sure I stretch lots before exercise - so I don't get injured
 
 
 
 
 
stonepixie
stonepixiePosted 04-05-2015 09:17 PM

What are some healthy behaviours you do for your body?

 

I walk everywhere that I can and when the weather clears up, I shall walk all the way to one of my appointments because the weather is a lot friendlier for long walks. 🙂 I try to eat healthy and always look at the sodium content of those satchet thingys. Never add salt to my meals, and I attempt to exercise and like to practice mindfulness.

 
 
 
 
 
stonepixie
stonepixiePosted 04-05-2015 09:19 PM
Oh and I have a 2L pitcher in my room that I fill my water bottle up from with the aim to drink it all in one day.
 
 
 
 
 
ruenhonx
ruenhonxPosted 04-05-2015 09:20 PM
Man, we are a healthy bunch aren't we 😉
 
 
 
 
 
florenceforever
florenceforeverPosted 04-05-2015 09:13 PM

I don't have a TV, but the whole concept of the biggest loser is very scary! Losing excessively large amounts of weight in small amounts of time is not good

 
 
 
 
 
florenceforever
florenceforeverPosted 04-05-2015 09:13 PM

Next up:

 

6. What are some healthy behaviours you do for your body?

 
 
 
 
 
Georgie
GeorgiePosted 04-05-2015 09:22 PM

What are some healthy behaviours you do for your body?

 

I eat a reasonably healthy and balanced diet, (with treats too!) I make sure I move my body, by going for walks, jogs, doing yoga, or cycling. And I get an epic amount of sleep each night 🙂 I think it's important not to push your body too much, and make sure you sometimes have days of rest if you feel like your body needs it.

 

I need to work on drinking more water though, so I don't get dehydrated so often. 

 
 
 
 
 
florenceforever
florenceforeverPosted 04-05-2015 09:23 PM

It sounds like you've found a great balance Georgie 🙂

 
I really want to try yoga - everyone I know who does it loves it!
 
 
 
 
 
stonepixie
stonepixiePosted 04-05-2015 09:26 PM
ff my psychologist suggested that I should try yoga today. Hahaha.
 
 
 
 
 
Georgie
GeorgiePosted 04-05-2015 09:25 PM
@florenceforever - Yeah it's great! It makes you feel very balanced and centred, and confident and strong.
 
 
 
 
 
ruenhonx
ruenhonxPosted 04-05-2015 09:16 PM

What are some healthy behaviours you do for your body?

Sleep 7+ hours 

Exercise 3-5 times a week

Eat lots of veges and fruits everyday 

Stretch

Stop when I am in too much pain 

Rest 

 
 
 
 
 
CeeGee
CeeGeePosted 04-05-2015 09:19 PM

Totally echo @ruenhonx

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