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[CHAT] I look after me
When you think about what self-care actually is, it really seems like a no brainer. Really, who wouldn’t want to do things that make them a happier, more mentally balanced and less stressed out person on a regular basis?
Even though it seems like a pretty obvious choice, a lot of us (me included) can be not too great at implementing self-care on a regular basis. Instead we might choose to do things that are easier or take less mental energy, like maybe spending hours scrolling through Tumblr… Not that I would know anything about that.
There are a few reasons why we might slip up a little on practicing self-care. For many, self-care can seem like it’s optional or even a bit selfish. In a world where we’re constantly pushing ourselves to achieve more and do more to reach strict ideas of what makes a “good life” it can be difficult to feel like you’re justified in taking time out to look out for your own needs. Self-care is something that we all need to do once in a while, no ifs, ands or buts.
So what actually makes something self-care? Self-care can be a really individual thing for different people, for example for one person going for a run would be self-care but for another it might mean baking a cake. All self-care, no matter what it entails, has one thing in common. Self-care all involves taking time to look after you, whether that’s physically, emotionally or mentally.
Want to learn more about self-care and how you can make it a bigger part of your life? Great! Come and join @safari93 and @Chessca_H on Monday 20th, 8pm AEST as we chat about looking after yo’self.
On the other hand, what are some of the benefits that come with practicing self-care?
You feel healthier and look healthier and it also makes it easier to do it again because you probably won't be in as deep a hole as when you started if you do it regularly. But that all depends on the person and situation.
Healthier. Doing it regularly can help build a routine which makes it easier to do. And, when you do it while or after you've had a problem, the next time it comes around you are better equipped to deal with it.
@N1ghtW1ng so true!! Most people have so much going on, they might not have much time or they might think that time could be 'better' spent
For me, the most difficult thing was actually getting myself to do it, and think that I deserved it. I think I had warped the idea of self-care in my mind to mean 'any kind of slacking off', and it took a while to realise that there is a difference between looking after yourself and cultivating bad habits
This is sort of related to the last question, but let's answer it anyways...
What are some of the difficulties that come with practicing self-care?
What are some of the difficulties that come with practicing self-care?
Finding time, knowing when to stop so as you suddenly become unproductive. Also if your self-care is something that can form a bad habit. Like there are people who go home after a long day a work to a glass of wine. Next thing they know, it is 3 glasses of wine or the whole entire bottle.
So basically making sure your self-care habits are healthy.
@stonepixie absolutely! Self-care, like most things, should be done with moderation in mind
The biggest one is taking care of yourself. A lot of people might find it difficult to actually take some time out of their day or week to take care of themselves, mentally and physically.
hey everyone! sorry I'm so late - footy training and lack of half decent internet connection will do that
Let's flip this discussion around a bit to something a bit more positive
On the other hand, what are some of the benefits that come with practicing self-care?
On the other hand, what are some of the benefits that come with practicing self-care?
You are better focused, you use your time more efficiently. Not wasting energy on things that are completely outside of your control. You become grounded, so your 'old brain' allows your 'new brain' to function properly aka you can remember things! Stupid over-reactive amygdala. Just means I have to practice more self-care than most people.
Honestly, when I do practice self care better and in the right moderation...my productivity actually goes up! When I take care of my self, grades and such often follow suit. Somehow I just keep forgetting this critical evidence 😛
Plus, when there are lengthy periods when life feels kinda dry with work and school and finances and all that stuff, little things like bath bombs or smoothies or a run- whatever it is that suits- really make a massive difference!
@N1ghtW1ng Taking the time out can be so difficult, but it's so worth it when you can!
@FootyFan26 this is true!! Thinking of how to look after yourself can be tricky, sometimes we don't figure it out for a while as well
@N1ghtW1ng I find youtube and tumblr relaxing as well, but there was a point where I did almost nothing else. It was a very unproductive time in my life
Practicing self-care isn’t easy, and we might not always commit to it. Have you ever neglected self-care for something easier?
Oof, yeah. For me, sometimes I think I'm taking care of myself, but I'm actually taking the easier road while digging myself a deeper hole- I've slipped into the routine of avoidance many a time. For example, staying home from school because it seemed easier than facing anxieties and stress...but ending up behind and isolated.
Gotta watch the line between a day off and several weeks off 😛