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Friends and Friendships

Hey everyone!

 

Lahna here 🙂 Hope you're all getting ready for the next GR session! 

 

A good friend is someone who knows all about you, but still loves you! They help us through days when we aren’t feeling so great, make us laugh, cry, keep our secrets, get us out of sticky situations and are just there when we need them most. As you’ve probably guessed, next Monday’s GR is all about friends!

 

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But what happens when a friend doesn’t live up to the expectations we had of them? Handling changes in friendships can be hard. How do you get friends, and keep them? How about handling conflict with your buddy?

 

It can be tough, but we all need a friend to lean on at times.

 

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Join us 8pm AEST on Monday (6th June) for a chat about everything friends!

Lahna
LahnaPosted 01-06-2016 07:58 AM

Comments

 
 
Ben-RO
Ben-ROPosted 06-06-2016 08:18 PM

Can you describe a time where a friend has supported you through a tough time?

 

Every single time i move house. 

 
safari93
safari93Posted 06-06-2016 08:15 PM

Hey @N1ghtW1ng! (and goodnight? lolol)

 
N1ghtW1ng
N1ghtW1ngPosted 06-06-2016 08:14 PM
Hey, I'm just popping in to say hello! I won't be staying because I'm half sleeping but I just wanted to say hi!

Have a nice evening and a good week my fellows!! 🙂
 
 
Lahna
LahnaPosted 06-06-2016 08:16 PM

Hey @N1ghtW1ng!

 

Thanks for saying hi 🙂 That's okay, hope you have a nice rest. Hope you are well and look forward to seeing you on the forums sometime soon.

 

🙂

 
 
Ben-RO
Ben-ROPosted 06-06-2016 08:16 PM

Thanks for stopping by @N1ghtW1ng!

 

 
safari93
safari93Posted 06-06-2016 08:12 PM

Hey @j95 and @FootyFan26, good to see you here!!

 
safari93
safari93Posted 06-06-2016 08:11 PM

@Ben-RO true! I guess what we value in friendships is not the same across the board. Although I find I get on much better with people who have the same values as me generally, so I would add that to my answer

 
safari93
safari93Posted 06-06-2016 08:04 PM

Hey everyone! Super excited for this topic!!!

 

What qualities make a friend ‘good’?

 

Being honest and trustworthy is very important to me, and I like my friends to be upfront, especially if there's something I'm doing that could be bothering them. Other than that, being supportive and there for me during the bad times as well as the good

 
 
Lahna
LahnaPosted 06-06-2016 08:09 PM

Hey @safari93 🙂

 

I agree with you! Being trustworthy is essential in my books too. Honesty is definitely a big one as well.

 

What qualities make a friend ‘good’?

 

I think a good friend is honest, trustworthy, loyal, reliable, caring, knows when to back off, and when to just be there. That being said, I don't have a single friend with all of those qualities except my sister! 

 
 
 
Ben-RO
Ben-ROPosted 06-06-2016 08:10 PM

Greetings @j95 and @FootyFan26!

 
Lahna
LahnaPosted 06-06-2016 08:02 PM

Hey all! Yep, it’s that time of the day 🙂

 

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Today we are chatting about friendships: the good, the bad and the ugly. @safari93 and myself (Lahna) are going to host this incredible GR, and can’t wait to hang out with you all!.. That’s what friends do right?

 

On that note here is our first question:

 

 

  • What qualities make a friend ‘good’?

 

 

 
 
FootyFan26
FootyFan26Posted 06-06-2016 08:08 PM

What qualities make a friend ‘good’?

 

  • Trust
  • Respect
  • Care
  • Selflessness to a point (Not overly selfish)
  • Know when the line has been crossed
  • Good listener
  • Loyal
  • Inclusive
 
 
 
Lahna
LahnaPosted 06-06-2016 08:11 PM

Hey @FootyFan26

 

I think inclusiveness is really important too- I didn't think of that one!

 

 
 
 
FootyFan26
FootyFan26Posted 06-06-2016 08:09 PM
@safari93 Honesty is a big one as well!
 
 
Ben-RO
Ben-ROPosted 06-06-2016 08:08 PM

What qualities make a friend ‘good’?

 

I think that's something the differers for everybody and for every friend, i have a few mates that are... well they're not perfect, but i consider them good friends anyway.  So i guess the main thing for me is that I share some common interests or things I'm passionate about with them. I also definitely value friends who are considerate of me and other people, I think that's kind of a must for me personally.  

 
 
 
j95
j95Posted 06-06-2016 08:10 PM
What qualities make a friend ‘good’?

A good friend is somebody who respects you and others and who you feel comfortable around, not intimidated.
 
 
 
 
Lahna
LahnaPosted 06-06-2016 08:12 PM

Totally @j95, how does a friend show respect to you?

 
 
 
 
 
j95
j95Posted 06-06-2016 08:24 PM
@Lahna
A friend can show respect by being understanding of differences and that your needs may be different to others
 
Ben-RO
Ben-ROPosted 06-06-2016 08:00 PM

Good evening everybody! 

 
 
Lahna
LahnaPosted 06-06-2016 08:05 PM

How's it going @Ben-RO? 🙂

 
 
 
Ben-RO
Ben-ROPosted 06-06-2016 08:08 PM

Pretty swell @Lahna! I'm chilling in front of a fire feeling pretty dang cosy right now! 

 

Hey @safari93!

 
 
 
j95
j95Posted 06-06-2016 08:08 PM

hey!

 
 
 
 
Lahna
LahnaPosted 06-06-2016 08:10 PM

Hey @j95! Good to see you 🙂

Welcome back!

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