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RUOK?

We all have crappy days. Totally normal, right? But what about when it stops being a normal crappy day, or two, and starts affecting someone's life? Mental health problems impact around one third of young people, and despite mental health becoming more socially acceptable to talk about, suicide is still the leading cause of death in young people. It's been shown that having good social connections is a crucial protector against mental health problems, and an integral part of getting back on your feet when you're having a hard time. 

 

With social connections being crucial to mental health, it's really important that we all know how to talk to people when we're worried about them. Looking after our friends is so important, and starting a conversation when you're concerned about someone can be really important in stopping little problems from getting bigger. It comes down to three simple words: are you okay? It might seem easy, but lots of people find having these kinds of conversations incredibly difficult. It can be hard to work out how to approach someone, what to say to them, & what to do if they tell you they are struggling. 

 

RUOK day is coming up on the 12th September, and we want to make sure that you guys are all comfortable and ready to start conversations with anyone you're worried about. Which is why we're dedicating a Getting Real session to thinking about how to have these incredibly important conversations! Remember: a conversation can change a life.  

 

This Monday (9th September) at 8pm AEST we'll be talking all about why these conversations are so important, what the difficulties are in starting a conversation about someone having a hard time, & how you can overcome them to make sure you have a meaningful conversation that helps you look out for your mates. This session will be relevant to everyone, so come join! 

 

gail
gailPosted 05-09-2013 05:14 PM

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Bee
BeePosted 09-09-2013 08:25 PM

2. What do you think the benefits are to reaching out for help? At what point do you think you or others should reach out to others for support during hard times?

Benefits of reaching out for help include feeling supported and less alone.
I think we should reach out for support if we're starting to feel overwhelmed and stressed, even if that means talking your concerns and worries over with a friend. Sometimes it can be hard to admit how we're feeling which makes things harder but awareness can help as well as taking your time.

 
 
 
 
 
Liz2013
Liz2013Posted 09-09-2013 08:21 PM
I, speaking from experience think it is important to get help before things get to bad because if you are depressed your body tricks you into thinking you are fine and then bad things can happen.
 
 
 
 
 
LeaLea07
LeaLea07Posted 09-09-2013 08:13 PM

@Liz2013 - that is such a great idea. It is wonderful hearing about people becoming involved.

 
 
Liz2013
Liz2013Posted 09-09-2013 08:03 PM

I have known of RUOK day since last year when we had a mental health expo at school. I think it is a great idea. 

 
 
 
gail
gailPosted 09-09-2013 08:05 PM

Hey @Liz2013 - welcome to the forums and tonight's discussion! What did you learn about RUOK day at your mental health expo?

 
 
 
 
Liz2013
Liz2013Posted 09-09-2013 08:08 PM
We learnt that RUOK day is an organisation dedicated to making suicide something that people can talk about and there lower the suicide rate. RUOK day as in the 12th is their major day for awareness and fundraising like White Balloon Day with Bravehearts.

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