Wow @Cheeseburger I'm so sorry! That's so bad! 
I feel like hugging you right now!
Did he give a reason for breaking up with you?
I'm still here for you, just having a very late dinner. 
Remember you're amazing just as you are
@Cheeseburger I'm so glad you're feeling like yourself again! Sometimes, romantic partners can try to make you change things about yourself or turn you into the person that they want you to be. It can sometimes feel really liberating to be single and not have someone who is going to put a lot of responsibilities and expectations on you.
Perhaps you can use this time to focus on doing the things that you really want to do. You deserve it!
That's a huge achievement and milestone for you @Cheeseburger! 
I'm so proud that you can be who you are! Being happy and comfortable with who you are is so important. Nobody can take that away from you.
@Cheeseburger That's such an amazing feeling! It must feel like a weight off your shoulders.
I hope that in time, you can love yourself and feel comfortable just as you are. Having support and validation from others can be nice, but we are ultimately responsible for making positive changes in our lives. We also don't necessarily need other people's opinions to feel good about ourselves because that comes from within and we have to believe it ourselves.
