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Re: Hello
Yes, thank you

If anyone here actually saw me, they will call me ugly, or avoid me. I don't have anything positive. I am ugly, fat, stupid and trash.
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@HelloHi I'd hope if we met irl everyone here would be a lot nicer than that!!
When people treat you like that, it's not because there's anything wrong with you. It's because they're just.. not very nice people.
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@HelloHi Okay, I've tagged you. You should see it in your notifications.
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Re: Hello

Tiny_leaf and letsheal have shown you such awesome support but I just thought I'd step in to say I'm here to talk too!
I'm so sorry you're going through this. I've had similar experiences of feeling bad about how I look


It sounds like you're a really kind and caring person from the concern you show to your grandma and openness to everyone on the forums, so I'd say that's a huge positive!
You call yourself all these horrible things but I wonder why you do this? You certainly don't deserve it.. No one deserves being called those things. Not one person on this world. So why are you calling yourself this? Is it in anyway helpful? Does it protect you from feeling hope that people might care? These labels- they aren't 'truths'. They're just thoughts. What do you think?
People who say or think these mean things- they aren't really targeted at you, they come from people's own insecurities, upbringing, and prejudice. There are always going to be people with unfair views in the world, but it's your choice whether you care about their opinions.. Because there are also people who care and will value you for who you are
Sorry if this sounded a bit too motivational hehe..
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Re: Hello
But thanks @Tiny_leaf
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Re: Hello
Please don't apologise. I appreciate your help.

I don't think i matter and have something to offer the world, I am useless.
I can't be kind to myself, because I know I am not good enough. That's why I believe those people. I have been feeling this way before others started to judge me. My own friends and family don't like me. I actually don't have any friends, because they avoid me too. Everyone hates me and have a problem with me, I do too.
Sorry if I sound so pessimistic, boring, annoying or demanding.
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@HelloHi I'd be anxious talking to people as well if they treated me like that...
I don't think you deserve it.
Anyway, I think you seem very nice.
Do you think it would be good to make friends on here?
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It would be good to make friends on here, as I wouldn't have to directly talk to people as it makes me anxious. Maybe I might feel less alone.
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