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Re: TW: Grief, Depression, Anxiety, Self Harm & Suicide

@Bananatime04 yep, really! 

I've never felt pressured to do it. I had one friend who had but no one else in my friend group, so I never felt pressured.

 

It's okay to be the odd one out in a group you don't feel comfortable in.

It might be a signal that you need a different group.

 

For me I had to find a group of people who were as weird as me Smiley Tongue

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Re: TW: Grief, Depression, Anxiety, Self Harm & Suicide

@Tiny_leafbut one of the girls in the group is really nice and I am already good friends with her Smiley Sad She wouldn’t find a new group with me because she’s close to those people too. She’s also like me, she’s never done anything sexual but she has been drunk a few times, gone to parties and smoked before Smiley Sad ugh I hate life!

I feel like I have to do all these things for them to like me.. I don’t want to leave because that means leaving my good friend that I’ve already made.
What do you think the average age is these days?

I’m also weird

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Re: TW: Grief, Depression, Anxiety, Self Harm & Suicide

@Bananatime04 do you think you can still be friends without joining in with the parties?

(If nothing else you could even just say that your parents won't let you go)

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Re: TW: Grief, Depression, Anxiety, Self Harm & Suicide

Heya @Bananatime04 , I'm about to log off sorry but did want to reassure you that you're definitely not alone there - I was almost 19 and in my second year of uni at the time (I was young for my year). I won't be in until next week, but will be thinking of you - hope all goes well this week Heart 

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Re: TW: Grief, Depression, Anxiety, Self Harm & Suicide

@Tiny_leaf yea but then I still won’t fit in Smiley Sad they won’t like me
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Re: TW: Grief, Depression, Anxiety, Self Harm & Suicide

@Tiny_leaf sorry if I made you uncomfortable Smiley Sad
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Re: TW: Grief, Depression, Anxiety, Self Harm & Suicide

@Janine-RO oh thanks!
I think I will wait until I am maybe 20.. or just wait until I feel comfortable and not pressured. Just wait for the right time. Which may never happen but at least I won’t feel uncomfortable Smiley Happy and if I go to a party, making sure I am around people that make me feel safe Smiley Happy

Aw I forgot you don’t work for ages.. well, have a good week, bye!
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Re: TW: Grief, Depression, Anxiety, Self Harm & Suicide

@Bananatime04 ah sorry! Just got distracted..

 

I have no idea to be honest..

 

Was it you who asked if I was interested in guys/ girls? For me it's girls.

 

Being weird is cool!! 

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Re: TW: Grief, Depression, Anxiety, Self Harm & Suicide

@Tiny_leaf yea but I thought I offended you so I edited it out.. that’s okay though Smiley Happy I hope I didn’t upset you or anything! That’s probably why you haven’t done it though.. I’m interested in guys but for a while I was questioning it because I thought there might be a reason why i am scared of the thought of doing stuff with a guy but I’m not attracted to females. It’s probably trauma. Is it normal to not want to do stuff but still want a relationship with the opposite gender? Is it possible to find a guys these days that doesn’t mind not doing that?

Yea we’re cool Smiley Tongue
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Re: TW: Grief, Depression, Anxiety, Self Harm & Suicide

@Bananatime04 nope, not offended, just distracted. Have to round up my cats to take them to the vet in a minute.

 

I mean.. guys aren't really my area...

But there are a lot of asexual people who'd be more than happy to have a relationship without sex. It's not for everyone and that's okay.