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Re: loosing the will to go on

i dont want to skrew up here too @Bree-RO that is the last thing i want to do. my mh has really gone down the drain and i know it affects my posting as well as in things never come out the way i intend it to or i find i just cant find anything useful to say.
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Re: loosing the will to go on

i am safe btw @Bree-RO just really really low
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Re: loosing the will to go on

@scared01  Yeah, that hand of yours is a real bugger isn't it?

 

As awful as this situation is, we can't change the past. That's why I'd like you to try and focus as much as you can on the here and now.

Actually, that's got me thinking - would you be up for a distraction challenge?

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@scared01  Just want to reassure you that you haven't screwed up here. We're always here for you, no matter what. Heart

Re: loosing the will to go on

thanks @mrmusic
yeah my hand is a pain. the specialist said that it may take over a yr to heal properly and i still might have troubles after that. i forget sometimes or when im busy i dont think about how im treating my hand.
yeah i know i cant change the past but the past is always in the now. it doesnt seem to be changing or maybe im just the one who needs to change.

mm i dont really know. distractions are good but perhaps something mindless is better
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Re: loosing the will to go on

Beautiful words @mrmusic

 

@scared01 you definitely are a wonderful, intelligent valuable human we especially think so on the forums Heart We're here on the journey, even when it hurts. Have you considered reaching out to some supports? Helpline? Heart

Re: loosing the will to go on

thanks @Bree-RO
yeah i have tried, the helplines really dont seem to help me anymore, they always suggest the same things and they are usually the first things i try to do. i cant see my psychologist till the end of this month, my gp doesnt want to see my unless neccessary, i dont have the support of the community mh team now, nor a psychiatrist.
i see my nurse this morning however that isnt for my mental health stuff.
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Re: loosing the will to go on

@scared01 yeah, the conversations can definitely get repetitive after a while. It's annoying 😕

It's good that you're seeing your nurse this morning Smiley Happy even though the appointment isn't MH related, would you feel comfortable telling her that you've not been feeling great?
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Re: loosing the will to go on

it does get annoying @lokifish or when your story just doesnt change so your seeking help for the same things it just becomes harder to talk.
yeah i probably will, she usually invites conversation in. shes been with me for over 5 yrs so im pretty comfortable and trusting in her
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Re: loosing the will to go on

@scared01 yeah, it can feel like you're going in circles sometimes... I know I often have the thought that I "should" be better or know how to deal with an issue by now. It then makes it hard *hugs*

Glad that you have that rapport with her! Hopefully seeing her helps Heart
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