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January 26

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Hi everyone, 

 

The 26th of January means different things to us all – for many Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander people, it's a day of mourning. It's a date that can stir grief, sadness, anger and hopelessness. 

 

We hope our community can be a safe place for anyone feeling distressed or overwhelmed to open up. We're here to listen and support you if Jan 26 gets too much to handle. 

 

How to cope 

 

The lead-up to Jan 26 can be draining all on its own – between all the media coverage, social media debates and comment sections, it's enough to wear you out before the day has arrived. 

 

Dealing with the pressure of change-the-date debates while feeling your personal grief is a lot to deal with at once. Here are some ideas for how to cope with the day: 

 

Take a break from the news, social media, and the comments section. One of the downsides to social media is that now more than at any other time in history, we can read hundreds of thousands of people's opinions at once, which is a lot to handle, especially when reading about an issue that directly affects you and your community. 

 

Connect with Country. If you can, think about making some time to connect with country. Spending time swimming, camping and walking on Country might help you feel grounded, strong and calm. 

 

Talk to someone you trust. Is there someone in your community you can spend time with now? Aunties, Uncles, nans, pops, mums, dads and Elders can be the best people to talk to when it's all too much. 

 

Create a community thread. If you need to get some things off your chest, know that we are also here to listen. 

 

Connect with a support service. If reaching out to a support service will help, there are plenty of options. 

 

 

How to be a good ally 

 

Jan 26 is a time to reflect honestly on our history and acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander communities' unwavering determination. 

 

On this day, we want to encourage this community to take the time to listen and learn from First Nations perspectives and to support events and movements that promote healing and reconciliation.

 

One way to do this is to look into local events and ceremonies organised by First Nations communities and organisations, where you can learn and show your support. You can also educate yourself by reading books and articles, watching films and documentaries, or listening to podcasts or music produced by Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander creators. 



🤝 Community events 

 

Show up and show your support by attending one of the many community events taking place. If you want to see what's happening in your local area, you'll find all that info here



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🎤 Music 

 

📽 Film + TV 

 

 

Bre-RO
Bre-ROPosted 24-01-2023 04:49 PM

Comments

 
Iona_RO
Iona_ROPosted 25-01-2023 01:50 PM

Love this! I always spend Jan 26th going to the Invasion Day march, and it's always such a fantastic atmosphere of First Nations people and allies coming together to make change. 

Also, another Aboriginal musician I really love is Bumpy, I saw her perform at an event a while ago and love her voice! I'm going to check out the How I See It : Blak Art & Flim exhibition this weekend as well. Looks awesome! 

 
teempade04
teempade04Posted 24-01-2023 09:26 PM

this is really good post, thank you for sharing with us  

 
-pringles-
-pringles-Posted 24-01-2023 07:51 PM

Thank You so much for this @Bre-RO I have just given my dad the Brother to Brother number - a number that I have just beomce familiar with! Dad was really grateful for it and said 'thanks for thinking of me!,' a response I did not expect!

 

@Blake_RO have you heard of Brother to Brother?

 
 
Blake_RO
Blake_ROPosted 25-01-2023 02:31 PM

Hey @-pringles-

Yes I have! It's so great that you were able to share it with him, it sounds like he really appreciated it and hopefully he finds it helpful being able to have a yarn with them. 

How are you feeling about tomorrow? 

 
 
 
-pringles-
-pringles-Posted 25-01-2023 05:07 PM

Hey @Blake_RO

 

I've never really celebrated January 26th, not unless it was for someone's birthday. January 26th is more of a day of surivial to me personally - that is what I have concluded. What does Janurary 26th mean to you? 🖤💛❤️

 

I will be volunteering my time, doing administrative work for the organisation that I volunteer for 🐈

 

How are you feeling about tomorrow?

 
 
 
 
Blake_RO
Blake_ROPosted 27-01-2023 04:40 PM

Hey @-pringles- , 

Completley agree, pretty special to know that we are part of the longest living culture in the world ❤️

I spent the day working and also went home to spend some time with my family! I made sure to limit my time on social media as much as possible to take care of myself - thanks for asking how I was feelng. 

I hope you had a good time volunteering yesterday. 

Stay deadly 😊

 
 
 
 
 
-pringles-
-pringles-Posted 27-01-2023 05:58 PM

Hey @Blake_RO

 

That is amazing to hear that you were lucky enough to spend the day with your family ❤️

 

Yep, I logged onto social media yesterday (and today) and it was rife with awful, uneducated comments about our beautiful culture.

 

Anytime Natalie 🙂

 

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