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@Lost_Space_Explorer5 @WheresMySquishy Yes! Boundaries are usually very difficult to set for people who are used to a more passive style of communication or who have difficulties asserting themselves. If you're used to people pleasing or self-sacrificing behaviour (putting others in front of yourself) Putting in place a boundary can feel selfish, we can worry about whether it is the right move, we can worry about how the other person will react. This can all lead to us continuing to feel resentful or unhappy/ frustrated. 
That's when we want to take a step back and re-assess.