thanks for listening@fishyie , that's so true. I feel there is a vibe from society that even when you have a success you should always be looking for 'areas for improvement,' e.g. if you did well on one test that doesn't mean you should rest on your laurels (another awful saying) because you can always do better next time or there's always some other subject or area of life that you need to work harder at. Why? what is the need for continuous improvement? what purpose does it serve in the end. it's better to be relaxed and happy since our life is short.
lately the only thing I do that feels a little peaceful is looking at the photos and videos my sister sends me of her little cats. I have never had a pet, I love how they're so silly and do the most random cute things. no thoughts head empty 😂