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Bella_18
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I asked a guy out and he's gosted me

So I've been talking/messaging with this guy for 2 weeks. We meet at a church camp. And he's perfect! He's super involved in the church. He's gorgeous to look at. We have so much in common. Literally a match made in heaven.

We talked every day till like 11 and we would always say goodnight.

 

So I was waiting and waiting for him to ask me out as things had progressed very well. He didn't, so I did. I said "Are you busy this weekend? Would you like catch up for coffee or a movie?"

 

And he hasn't "seen" it but he's viewing all my stories. And we all know you can see a message from your homescreen. So we've gone from talking every day for hours to absolutely nothing! I'm not going to message him as the ball is in his court. But is there any coming back from just totally ghosting me for no reason? Like just say your not ready or your busy, something. Other than complete silence 🔕 I'm shocked as I definitely wasn't reading the wrong signals.

 

I also have enough confidence in myself to say I am stunning! I am a lovely person and it's his total loss. 

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