Hiii @Lemon_Dolphin
I'm sorry you feel frustrated and that your mum won't listen to you. It's not a good feeling to be questioned about what you're doing when you know it's right for you. I think that you are 100% doing the right thing. There is no rush to finish your certificate; everyone does it their own way at their own pace. I'm proud of you for prioritising your well-being and making decisions that feel right for you. Personally, as someone who is now at the end of my degree, I regret not doing part-time uni because it's a good opportunity to save money, work more and really hone in on my studies without getting burnt out.
It sounds like you've thought things through carefully, weighing the options and considering what will work best in the long run. It's natural for parents to have their opinions and concerns, but ultimately, you know your situation best. Trust yourself, and it's okay to stick to your decisions even if others don't fully understand them at first.
It's really good that you're taking steps to save money and look for jobs while studying as well so that you can have a healthy balance. Your mum will come around once she sees how you're going.
When you experience moments of frustration or pressure from others, such as your mum, how do you typically cope? And when things like this happen what self-care strategies do you find most helpful during these times?
You're doing great! Here to offer you all the support ❤️
