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Rara
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Hi @eden_m01

 

It sounds like you are having a bit of a struggle with your girlfriend at the moment, it must be challenging for you and can be quite stressful. It's great to see that you have been able to keep yourself busy with your hobbies, it is very important to take care of yourself when we are faced with challenges. 

 

It's also great to see that you are trying to support her as much as possible during this time of uncertainty.  You've also mentioned that you are long-distance which must be challenging at the moment. Something I like, when I have been through depression in relationships, is for that person to reach out to me in my love language. It made me feel seen and that they've noticed what I want.  Do you know what her love language is? And would this be a possible way of saying hey, I'm here to listen when you are ready? For long-distance it could be like some form of a care package, it might help her feel she can reach out to you a bit more. 

 

Otherwise, the suggestions the others have made, about reaching out to someone else close to her, might help you understand a clearer picture of what's happening and going on. It might help you figure out what a good way to support her during this time. 

 

However, please remember to take care of yourself its just as important and reach out to your own support community or even back here. 

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