Hey @eden_m01,
I read through your last post to get caught up to speed-
I'm sorry to hear how things have developed with your partner. It's undoubtedly a very tough and painful experience to feel disconnected and left with questions unanswered. It's completely valid to feel hurt and confused, especially since you haven't been able to discuss this with her.
I was in a long-distance relationship as well when I was a bit younger, and found it tricky to communicate consistently with my partner for what I needed. I found that quite often, I would feel stressed and anxious by the lack of communication, so in some way- I can see how you might be feeling. I want you to know that your feelings are important here, and even if it feels impossible, try to do some little things to continue to take care of yourself (I know in your last post, you mentioned some hobbies which is awesome). It's hard not to overthink in these kinds of situations, but I know that constantly overthinking can eventually take a toll on our bodies. I hope you are able to find some strategies to practice some self-care. I feel like journalling or even continuing to use online forums like this one can be helpful for me if I ever need to work through a thought or feeling that has come up. And of course, this community is here to support you!
I'd also like to remind you that whats happened with your partner is not at all related to what you are worth as a person, a friend or a partner, and says much more about where they are at. I can see from your posts that you are the person who can reach out and communicate to work through complicated things, and you deserve that from the people in your life as well.
Take it one day at a time, @eden_m01 ! Even though it feels uncertain now, clarity and peace sometimes come with time. You are stronger than you know and you've got this.
We are here for you. 💙
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