Thank you for your thoughtful response, it’s really appreciated❤️
I never expected them to reconcile, or (G) to forgive (D), but when they said they didn’t want me to have to choose sides, I believed them, I didn’t want to get in the middle of things, felt like I was introducing in their business, so I sort of just ignored it...
(G) has sent messages before, along the lines of “hey, why are you still friends with (D)?”
and I’d thought we had always come to somewhat of an understanding,
but recently she asked again, and continued to say, that it felt like I wasn’t acknowledging her hurt, that after thinking about it she should have set the boundary that she wasn’t alright with me being friends with (D) after she cut (D) off
That she was really hurt I stayed friends with (D) after seeing how she was treating her,
I just don’t know how to respond to her...
(G)s upset with me, she has every right to be, I haven’t given her a proper response in nearly two weeks,
she texted Tuesday night that I needed to respond that night or before lunchtime the next day, I told her I couldn’t, that I hadn’t had the space to think about things, she hasn’t messaged back.
it just feels like the only thing she’d be happy with is me cutting (D) off which isn’t something I’ll do.
