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28-10-2013
08:26 PM
Hey DD! Welcome!!!
I also had to see a new physio earlier this year (my previous one died in a car crash :( ). So it was super difficult to see someone new when I was still grieving for my old one (who was very much a friend as well as physio!). It's also tough when you see those types of people if you are seeing them for areas which mean you have to take your shirt off (e.g. back pain!). It's a bit scary doing that for the first time - they are always super understanding and leave the room and stuff and make sure you have a towel to cover you, but it's still a bit scary!
Seems as though dentists are a common worry!! So glad I don't fear my dentist in the slightest - the only thing I fear is that he'll go mad at me for not flossing as much as I should. :P
Lets move on to the next question:
How do you go about choosing a new health professional? What kind of stuff do you normally look for?
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28-10-2013
08:20 PM
1 Kudo
It definitely is quiet tonight! Yeah, a lot of the good docs don't even accept new patients anymore - especially if they bulk bill! Unfortunately this one doesn't bulk bill, which sucks! But if she's amazing it will be worth it!
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28-10-2013
08:19 PM
1 Kudo
Hey Doni - great video. I didn't even realize Humphrey B Bear existed anymore! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zdtD19tXX30 There is a WHOLE series of these videos. They are SO funny!
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28-10-2013
08:16 PM
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Past experiences definitely shape how we feel about future health professionals!
I'm REALLY hoping this GP will be great! My local area has this really awesome facebook page - it's like a community noticeboard and someone posted a question a few weeks ago asking about good female doctors in the area, it got so many replies! So this doctor was one of the recommendations from a few people on there! I always feel more confident when I hear AMAZING recommendations from others!
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28-10-2013
08:13 PM
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Hey Doni, What's your fave number? Do you prefer coke or pepsi?
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28-10-2013
08:12 PM
1 Kudo
I haven't actually been to any first appointments lately... Although I am going to see a new GP on Wednesday! So this topic is so relevant to me!
@Sophie-RO , I actually adore my dentist! I saw him a couple of weeks ago and it was great. He is so friendly and we always have a big chat about his two cute little daughters and he shows me photos!
The toughest first appointment has probably been my current psychiatrist, but that was a few years ago now. Always hard to open up to someone new!
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28-10-2013
08:00 PM
Hey guys!!
Welcome to tonight's Getting Real session! Sophie and I will be leading the discussion tonight and we look forward to an education conversation!
Tonight we are discussing "first appointments". We are not restricting the topic at all to any "one" type of appointment so feel free to come in with experiences in first appointments in any health professional area! Many first appointments are very similar anyway!
We look forward to hearing your thoughts about how to deal with anxiety surrounding first appointments and what some of your experiences have been in the past. So take a seat in this comfy waiting room (for once, NOT full of sniffling, coughing children) and join in the conversation!!!
Of course normal rules apply - check out the guidelines here and if anything upsets you tonight remember there is the emergency help button up the top right of the screen.
To start us off tonight…
Have you been to any first appointments lately? What about in the past? Which were the scariest?
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14-10-2013
08:13 PM
3 Kudos
I'm currently in denial phase! If I ignore my essay it will go away, right??
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28-09-2013
11:22 AM
Hey guys,
This is amazing!!! I've really loved reading through the tips so far!! Lets get to 50! :D
1. Sleep
2. Exercise 3. Listen to music. 4. Write it down (letter, email, journal, diary, poem) 5. Colouring-in 6. Meditation and yoga 7. Talk to a friend 8. Have a warm bath. 9. Watch a TV show/movie or 2 (the funnier the better) 10. Dance like no-one is watching 11. Pull a funny face for 5 seconds 12. By yourself, sing as loud as you can along to your fav song of the moment with the music turned UP! 13. Take photographs
14. Play with a kitty cat, or pet
15. Go for a stroll outside.
16. Keep your hands busy (sewing, woodwork, cards, etc)
17. Shopping therapy - treat yourself
18. Do something nice for someone else
19. Read a good book
20. Watching funny Vine and Youtube videos
21. Bake your favourite type of cake
22. Make a daisy chain
23. Have a cup of tea
24. Know someone with a punching bag& gloves? Headover there & pow pow pow! (You local gym might have one too!)
25. Take yourself on a picnic
26. Do some stretches
27. Massage your feet
28. Dump toxic people
29. Do some kickboxing
30. Come onto the Reachout Forums :D
31. Make a Postsecret and send it in!
32. Have a facial
33. Tidy your room (okay, so this mightn't sound fun but I find it soothing and having a tidy room rocks!)
34. Sort through your clothing and find some to donate to charity
35. Paint your nails!
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23-09-2013
12:39 PM
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My name is Chelsea and I am afraid of storms, fire and spiders. What are you afraid of?? We all have fears, some of them may be really common (e.g. heights, snakes, injections) or they may be uncommon (the list is endless). It doesn't really matter what your fear is - what matters is how we cope with these fears. If they are impacting on your everyday life, it's time to do something about them and while talking to a health professional is a great idea, there are also a few practical things that you can do to help yourself when you are faced with those fears. We are going to be discussing some of these practical tips and while our discussion may not be quite as amusing as the following video, we will keep it upbeat, positive and we definitely won't judge your fear/s!
Monday 23 September at 8pm right here, to discuss your fears in a supportive environment, and learn some tips from other people who know how you feel!!
Hope you can join us.
Also, it might help to have a read of this story, about how one person overcame their fear! http://au.reachout.com/The-strange-fear
And check out this fact sheet for more info on phobias ( http://au.reachout.com/What-is-a-phobia )
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18-09-2013
03:27 PM
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Hey @Damaged4790
Welcome to the ReachOut.com forums.
Firstly, I just need to let you know that I had to edit your post a little bit. We do not allow specific discussion of medications on these forums - please checkout the guidelines for more details.
I would really recommend that you go see your doc about your anxiety problems and let them help you. It might be that they prescibe you the same meds as your previous doctor or they might have other suggestions on what might help (e.g. counselling). If you tell them that the previous medication worked well then they will definitely take that into consideration. However, I noticed in another post of yours that you are having substance abuse problems as well - you need to let the new doctor know about that too, as they will be able to provide you with some treatment options for that as well.
Sorry to hear your anxiety is really bad at the moment. Have you got any techniques that help you cope? For example, deep breathing?
Take care of yourself and I hope you speak to a doc soon.
MM.
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09-09-2013
08:48 PM
3 Kudos
Sometimes, people find it really hard to ask for help. Why do you think this might be?
- Don't want to admit it to yourself.
- Don't have anyone around who would actually care.
- Don't want to worry anyone with your "problems"
- Want to try to sort it out yourself.
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09-09-2013
08:18 PM
3 Kudos
Hey guys,
I've known about RUOK? for quite a while. It's definitely got more popular over the past couple of years! It's a great concept but is hard to carry out. Not just for those asking others if they are okay, but also those who are being asked - it's hard to admit to someone that you are NOT okay.
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29-08-2013
11:16 PM
1 Kudo
On the note of deferring, I deferred when I first got into uni. I was originally going to defer for 12 months but got bored so started uni mid year. So that's always an option too! If you think about it, you finish year 12 in November and if you defer for one semester you don't start til July the next year - that's like 8-9 months off! Which is HEAPS! So that's always an option too. :)
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25-08-2013
09:23 PM
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what you first applied for: Bachelor of Science, and a heap of different science based degrees. I have now finished my Bachelor of Science.
whether you changed your course after you got there. As I said, I have finished my BSc, but my major changed significantly from what I thought I would do. Originally, I thought I'd major in maths then changed my mind to biology and finally psychology which is what I stuck with!
Was it hard to decide on what to pick? If so, how did you decide? Not really. I only did maths and science in high school so I always knew I'd pick something "scienc-y" and I wanted to keep my options open which is why I chose a BSc because you can major in so many different things. Honestly, if you are not sure but still want to go to uni, I'd recommend applying for a BSc or Bachelor of Arts as you can major in so many different things and then swap at a later date. My brother did that with his BA as well!
I also always wanted to go to the University of QLD, because it has a REALLY good reputation, my brother was already there and he loved it and it was also fairly convienient. :)
Good luck picking! Don't get too stressed over it, lots of people change their minds! :)
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25-08-2013
09:18 PM
Hi sezzalovesmj, Welcome to Reach out. I also have a dog who sheds a lot. I make sure I vacuum weekly and keep him clean and well groomed. There are these really amazing brushes you can buy which minimizes the shedding by a HEAP. They are called "furnimator". They are quite expensive, but are honestly worth every cent, they decrease the hair loss by heaps especially if you brush them every day! Maybe you could also keep the dogs out of your kitchen so you can eat in there - only allow them to be in certain rooms? At least then you can eat in the house. I'd really recommend you keep talking to your doctor and work on finding a solution which suits you and your dogs! MM.
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22-08-2013
02:47 PM
Hi Bridget, Welcome to Reach Out. It's great that you are looking for information on having sex for the first time especially as you are quite young. It's so important to get all the facts and to make sure you are emotionally ready. Firstly, I know this might seem strange especially as you are both consenting, but there are actually rules regarding legally what age you can have sex. In Australia, for most states and territories, that age is 16. (See: http://www.lawstuff.org.au for more info). That's not to say that lots of young people under the age of 16 don't do it, but it's just another thing to consider as for instance, if your parents or your boyfriend's parents found out and disagreed with what is happening, things can get a bit messy legally. I know my older brother was faced with this very problem when he was 17, as his girlfriend was under 16 at the time, so they waited until she was 16 to have sex especially as her parents weren't very happy about the relationship. I'm not trying to put you off the idea of sex, I just wanted to alert you to the law so you can take it into consideration as well. Good luck making the decision, I really encourage you to talk it through in a lot of detail with your boyfriend so you both know your boundaries and thoughts on this issue. Communication is the key here! And as others have mentioned - make sure you are aware of the contraceptive options (which might mean going to a doctor or family planning clinic so you can go on the pill). :)
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21-08-2013
07:21 PM
1 Kudo
I HATE QLDs winter. I love the cold weather and we never get enough of it! This week it's been warm enough to wear shorts and a tshirt - in August! The last two days have been a bit cooler though. :) I just love being able to snuggle under a blanket.
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19-08-2013
10:10 PM
1 Kudo
Take care of yourselves tonight, guys! Thanks for a great discussion!!! I've learnt a lot. :)
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19-08-2013
10:05 PM
1 Kudo
Baahahah. Bee. I would totally do that with my bobby pins, if I could EVER find any!!!! I always seem to lose mine!!!
1. Paint my nails as strawberries (I've been wanting to do this for ages).
2. Find the old CD that I used to listen to when I was younger and see if I can recreate the dance I made up!
3. Colour in. I miss colouring in. I don't get time anymore. :(
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19-08-2013
09:57 PM
For our final question tonight (thanks so much for participating guys!!):
It's been a bit of a heavy topic tonight, so to close things off, we'd like you to tell us three things you do/could do to help yourself when you're feeling low. Be as creative as you can!
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19-08-2013
09:55 PM
2 Kudos
What are the types of things we can do every day to promote good mental health?
All of mine have already been suggested! Eating, exercising and sleeping well are my main ones. As well as spending time with animals, taking time out to do the things I enjoy, finding ways to destress!
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19-08-2013
09:44 PM
1 Kudo
Great list we've compiled guys. :)
What are the types of things we can do every day to promote good mental health?
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19-08-2013
09:37 PM
1 Kudo
Who could you talk to about depression? What kinds of help are available?
There is SO much help available. Key ones include Kids Help Line (1800 551 800), Life Line (13 11 14), eHeadspace (http://www.eheadspace.org.au ) and BeyondBlue (http://www.beyondblue.com.au ).
But there is also your GP, school/uni/tafe counsellor, a teacher or lecturer, a friend or family member, pastor, or a psychologist/counsellor etc. The list is the endless! :)
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19-08-2013
09:26 PM
Seems as though many of us realize that talking to professionals can be really beneficial when dealing with depression, this links in nicely with our next question:
Who could you talk to about depression? What kinds of help are available?
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19-08-2013
09:25 PM
1 Kudo
Depression can get very serious, very quickly. What do you think are some ways to prevent things from getting to that point? What has worked for you or friends?
Definitely agree with getting formal help asap, but I also know that for me I don't suffer from depression ALL the time now, I just have periods of depression and I am able to recognize the symptoms and understand that at those times, I need to take better care of myself so I don't reach that "serious" point. During those times I make sure I take more time out for myself and do the things that make me happy. I also do some of the more practical things like eating healthier, exercising more and having a stricter sleeping pattern. I also make sure I let my psychiatrist know as soon as I realize things are going a bit pear-shaped so that he can keep an eye on me to make sure I'm not getting too deep into depression again.
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19-08-2013
09:20 PM
1 Kudo
Hey Bee! Welcome to the discussion. Well done on the mega catch up! :) Definitely agree with your point about KNOWING why you are feeling crap when having a crappy day, but not knowing with depression. The word "depression" definitely does have a lot of stigma attached and it can be REALLY hard to admit to ourselves or anyone else that what we are struggling with might be depression. My school counsellor was also the same - didn't use the word depression straight away, then one day she mentioned it but made sure she emphasized that help WAS available and I could get through it with the right support. Thanks for your thoughts. :)
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19-08-2013
09:09 PM
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Welcome to the discussion Birdeye! Your responses were very informative. :) Sadder expressions is definitely one that I didn't think of straight away, but it's definitely true. My first major depressive episode was in high school, my mum was frequently told by teachers that I "looked" upset. And a few months ago, I found my year 12 school photo. I was ABSOLUTELY SHOCKED by my facial expression in the photo. It looked as though I had the weight of the world on my shoulders. It actually made me cry because I never realized how "depressed" I looked. It's not something you notice in the moment, but your face lets off so many of your emotions. I like that you have hinted to your friend that you've had similar situations - I think knowing that you have been through similar situations can really help your friend open up to you. :) Sounds as though you are doing everything right, birdeye. :) You sound like a great friend.
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19-08-2013
08:55 PM
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It definitely is quiet tonight. Feel free to join in guys! :) We'd love to hear your opinions/personal stories/thoughts.
How might you approach someone you care about if you're concerned that they're experiencing depression? What kinds of things would you say or not say?
You definitely have to be careful about how you approach this conversation. Especially as the person might be very confused and unsure what is going on, they mightn't be ready to understand that what they are feeling could be due to depression. They might also be embarassed and not want to worry anyone.
I'd probably just keep it simple and say something like, "I've noticed lately that <insert symptom> and <more symptoms>, I was just wondering if you are feeling okay and if there is anything I can do to help? Maybe we could have a chat about what's going on and work out together how you can feel a bit better".
I would make sure to do it in a quiet place away from other people (unless there were a few close friends who were also concerned) and make sure I let them tell me as little or as much as I like. I wouldn't put any unneccessary pressure on them. They mightn't want to tell me straight away but might come back later and tell me - which would be totally fine. :) It can take a while for them to open up. :)
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