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PeanutJelly148
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24-06-2016
11:20 AM
2 Kudos
I talked to my friend and we're friends again. There was a lot of miscommunication. We kind of sorted it out. Idk if im going to go to her dinner as im already travelling to melb a week after for uni open days and the week after that so i dont want to travel don there again cause its a long way and i dont have the money to do so. but we'll see closer to the date. Yeah @Rainbow Lane I think when ever people say things like that they are meaning it as a compliment but it puts too much ressure on me. If it happens again I'll try talking to them about it.
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23-06-2016
03:10 PM
So guys.. um this just happened.. idek what to think atm. Yano that friend that im no longer friendswith.... well um. I unfriended her and everyone to say that yano we're no longer friends but i don't think she noticed..... she just invited me to her 18th.... idek what to think or do. Should i message her? Should i ignore it or wait awhile? Idk. Please help. She said the party is only for family and a few close friends, considering we had a fight i didn'texpect to be put on the close friends list. so I'm a bit confused.
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22-06-2016
10:31 AM
@Kaz-RO i do feel that pressure , so that's why i don't mention it to anyone. 2 of my friends do make me feel better about it, but its when people for example we went shopping and the comments such as "this is your store, only people like you should be able to go here as it only suits your body unlike ours" sometimes i think the only reason why people take notice of m and are interested in me is because of my body and not me as a person. @N1ghtW1ng its mainly how she says how she thinks shes going to fail ect right before a sac and we comfort her ect but she gets 100% or close to everytime and i get unsatisfactory. Im just not good at english or math, and my speech, i cannot say certain words, thats another reason why my spelling is so bad cause i sound it out to see how it could possibly be spelt but because i cant say it right i spell it wrong type of thing, it makes me feel like my english and math skills are primary school level, which they are. and math just doesnt make sense at all to me. i remember her saying to anther person how you have to try really hard t get below 10 in a test when i tried really hard to gt a good mark and i got under 10.... I specific thoughts about it all is based around my belly, and with comments such as i should wear more crop tops it makes me even more insecure about it all. Im trying to figure out an alternative so its not as expensive. Cheers guys. <3 Xx
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21-06-2016
10:09 PM
1 Kudo
Thanks guys. The reason why the friendship broke up is because someone told her i was talking about her behind her back (which i didnt, they totally misinterpreted it) The operation will be rescheduled after all these tests about the seizures. I don't have the relationship with my parents were i can openly talk to them. My friend she doesnt realise, and we have had a few issues so i don't think i can talk to her about it. My self esteem issues idk how toexplain. I have these moments where i just hate my body, everything about it, and people always say how I've got a models body and i should love it but i don't and it makes me feel bad because i just can't. I keep going over and over the fact that i want to be involved with a girl but im too scared. I talked to the coordinator about if people do it, I'll just tell him and he will talk to them. He is also goinf to address the whole yr12 class. Talking to him about if his told anyone I'm nervous about but i think I'll talk to the counsellor about it. I live in a remote area so public transport is very limited but I'm going to call her and ask if i can get a lift from someone in this area. Thanks.
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21-06-2016
11:14 AM
1 Kudo
Well, Hey guys. Idek where to start..... But i'll try, haha. I've got a tone of stuff going on right now, like its crazy. So i'll just start of by listing them? -Not friends with someone anymore, although she made me feel like crap while we were friends. -my dad is sick, needs an operation but because he is having siezures (idk how to spell it....) it got cancelled, his getting worse -my friend make me feel worthless because she is so smart and im an idiot basically. -I'm having bad self esteem one minute, the next im fine and the thing that maes me feel good is expensive af. -I'm going to a party and idk about it, cause we were joking im going to get with a girl and its kinda screwing with my mind. (im a girl btw, if you didnt already know. ) -peeps in class have been joking about self-harm and i told the yr level coordinator that i cant handle it because i used to do it. and now im freaking out cause he suppose to tell someone, but i did tell him im already seeing someone abut it so idk. its confusing -i have this diversity group things on mondays that i reallllyyyy badly need to go to, but i have no one to take me and im not 18 for a few months. so i cant drive myself. so yeah, i feel like i wasted the counsellors time with it aswell. So yeah... with all this going on you'll probs expect me to be in the corner in tears...which i do expect myself to be.... but im not. and this is whats making me feel the worse. Im super happy, and i havent been like this since before i started selfharming. its good, but its making me guilty because i should be depressed again, especially since my dad is sick but im not. So i decided to put this here since i didnt get to talk to someone about it yesturday. (excuse the longness and the spelling mistakes btw ) Thanks Guys.
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20-06-2016
09:01 PM
I gtg guys, enjoy the rest of the chat. Been good so far! Xx
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20-06-2016
08:55 PM
3 Kudos
Have you ever successfully stopped yourself from procrastinating? Or do you know someone who can? sometimes i can, it depends what the work is, and what im doing to avoid it. I knw people who dont do it at all, but they are smart and im not, which is why i start in the first place because i cant do it.
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20-06-2016
08:51 PM
@Stealth_ninja i have 1season and 9episodes left. but i have 10+ other series that im into......
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20-06-2016
08:46 PM
Yeah i may be slightly obsessed with ga.... I know after i get off the excitment from ga i feel like crap because i spent no time on my work and all the time on ga.
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20-06-2016
08:40 PM
2 Kudos
@lokifish If you binge watch it, it will take 6 days and 4 hours in total with no breaks. Its amazing, and you may want to become a surgeon after it. :'D
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20-06-2016
08:35 PM
1 Kudo
Haha yeah. heeps of bomb shells, i cant stop watching it, (infact im watching it right now, i think i have an obsession) I procrastinate by ceaning my room or watching Greys Anatomy. :')
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20-06-2016
08:30 PM
2 Kudos
I agree with like everyone about the reasons why.... I think i've done all of them. My biggest thing for me is Greys Anatomy. i watch it to motivate me, i watch one scene and do one thing of my work after and not allow myself any more GA till i do one section of work and repeat but then a bombshell in ga.. and i completely forget about my work.
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20-06-2016
08:17 PM
1 Kudo
Hey everyone! What work are you most likely to put off? Is it homework? Chores? Work-related stuff? Mainly School wor, unless i have a sac the day before, then i go crazy working.
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06-06-2016
09:59 PM
2 Kudos
Can you think of something you might do this week for a good friend in your life? Give them chocolate, Do something nice after the exam, idk.
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06-06-2016
09:57 PM
1 Kudo
@safari93 Well, i accept it, i want her to remain my friend and so for the fight to end i accept it and move on. Idk what i can really do.
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06-06-2016
09:52 PM
1 Kudo
Can you describe a time where you’ve been in a disagreement or fight with a friend? How did you and your friend resolve it? Well i've had to may to count, but they usually end in 3 ways: We end up not friends The blame gets pushed onto me, or W resolve it and its back to normal. Yay.
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06-06-2016
09:44 PM
2 Kudos
When is conflict in a relationship healthy? When it has a positive outcome and can address some issues for them to be resolved. (haha that was a prompt in english. :') haha)
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06-06-2016
09:41 PM
1 Kudo
well two of my friends from school just had a fight about 5 minutes ago.. legit. but i have a couple people im close with. Apart from the school counsellor i only really have one friend to confide in atm. i think the stress of yr 12 is getting to everyone and its taking its toll on friendships.
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06-06-2016
09:34 PM
3 Kudos
with the guy i told the school counseller person, and the 2nd situation I told her im stepping back from this arugement because i think its best and havent talked to her since. And honestly i dont plan to talk to her at all. but she doesnt know any of this because she'll become even more pissed at me then what she alreasy is. :/
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06-06-2016
09:27 PM
Have you ever made friends with someone who wasn’t so great for you? What did you do about it? I did have a friend, when our friendship turned into a dating thing some things were revealed to me and i ended up being terrified for my safety so that ended things quickly and im still scared of him and avoid him. Another situation is when my friend made me feel like crap, i talked to her about it, she didnt take it so well, made me feel like i was at fault, and we continued to be friends. but now we are fighting again and tbh i dont want our friendship to rekindle.
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06-06-2016
09:20 PM
1 Kudo
Social media is a huge help, I dont think i'll have any friends if i didnt have social media. :D using socail media helps me overcome my shyness, and shows my real personality... if that made sense
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06-06-2016
09:13 PM
2 Kudos
How do you go about befriending someone? find common interests, start talking, till eventually you talk more often and it becomes a friendship. with all that facebook tagging and poking wars. :P
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06-06-2016
08:57 PM
@Lahna Yeah i hace thought about that. I have a very difficult time approaching people, so unfortunatly i avoid it, as much as possible, even people approaching me i get nervous.
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06-06-2016
08:49 PM
1 Kudo
How do you think making friends is challenging? for me personally its because i cant make friends, i cant be the one to go up to the other person. Other reasons could be because you may not know this person, so making friends you could have nothing in common so its difficult to find common ground to start talking ect. Other reasons could include being shy, so making friends is difficult.
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06-06-2016
08:44 PM
Mine dropped out aswell, so i post and when it reloads i've missed an entire page of comments.
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06-06-2016
08:42 PM
1 Kudo
How do you show your friends that you can be a good friend too? a variety of things, most easy are supposting, encouraging, a shoulder to cry on, things like that. Yeah my friends can be supportive sometimes, although right now me and a friend are having a bit of an arguement.
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06-06-2016
08:33 PM
2 Kudos
omg i made it, yay. Hey btw. what makes a good friend. Lots of things really, trust, acceptence, sticking uo for you, support. My friends suppost me almost every time im going through something tough, and i try to help them.
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03-06-2016
09:06 PM
2 Kudos
I'm happy i could finally help someone on here, It made me feel happier about my day knowing i could try to help someone elses.
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03-06-2016
11:51 AM
3 Kudos
1. If you could transform into any animal what would you become and why? Hmm.... Im not sure. I wouldn't mind being a uncorn or a puppy. 2. How tall are you? 170ish. somewhere close to that anyway, i can't remember the exact number. 3. What is your favourite thing to do for a holiday? Sleep, Chill with people, party, (haha nah, i don't party.) read and watch movies with my imaginary bae. 4. What's the temperature outside where you are right now? Idk, but its forcast between 5-14, so warmed up a bit. 5. Are you right or left eye dominant? I have no idea.
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01-06-2016
04:59 PM
1 Kudo
As i was saying.... (sorry i was in class and the bell rang for hometime) What i find that helps is to stop compairing yourself, and give yourself a pep talk about how its not a competition, You are beautiful the way you are and everyone is unique. ect. This normally works for me, but it also depends on the context.
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