I hope you had an okay day @scared01 . Thinking of you <3  ... View more

Did some holiday planning. Picked up a Sunday shift. Made dinner plans with some friends.  ... View more

well done! @Bee ... View more

Today I'm grateful for having to time to start the day slowly, with a good breakfast, coffee and a book.  ... View more

I smiled because... - I had cuddles with my cat who likes to think he's independent :P - My other cat was on my bed and I put his fav blanket of top of him, and he crawled out so only his head and neck were out from under the blanket and it looked like he was tucked in, it was so adorable!!! :D - New monitor and keyboard in my workspace at work! It's so nice! (And makes multitasking easier as the screen is larger!) ... View more

negative- i have some issues with my heart positives- it can be managed and we are working through a good care plan for medications and other lifestyle things that will help me ... View more

Dough Obliterates Under (high) Balloon's Trunks I have know clue about this one.... :P K N O W S ... View more

@Puppies026, I'm currently in 'Bring It On: The Musical'. It's a high school production, at my school. Haha! I hear you on that one! I love them that much too... ... View more

@Jess1-RO You make the forums soo much better, as an admin. You're small reminders of the guidelines and comforting posts make me smile, and feel safe just when you're online! :) ... View more

5 Things I see: 1. PC screen... _ _ 2. My brother.............. - 3. A folder. 4. A 'beebot' coding tool. 5. Papers on my dad's computer desk..... 4 Things I feel: 1. Aching body from the cursed gym at school!!!! 2. Sad. 3. Depressed... 4. Okay. 3 Things I Hear: 1. Mansion - NF = Music... and Paralysed - NF 2. Brother's video on his iPad... 3. Door opening and closing. 2 Things I Smell: 1. Smokey air from bonfire next door. 2. Strawberry Ice-cream. 1 Good Thing Today: 1. I made scrolls for my siblings and I's lunches this week. ... View more

I couldn't be bothered to think of one, so I went with my nickname I was given by my 2nd strings teacher. I just added on the numbers from one of my account's usernames. Great idea for a thread! ... View more

Dear Self, It's okay that your finding things difficult right now. Know that you are doing the best you can, and there are people around to support you as you need! Self x Dear C, I miss working with you. I miss the way you cared and really worked on building a relationship with me. I miss your optimism and genuineness. I know you did what was best for you and I respect your decisions. Bee ... View more

Went to two different libraries today and now I'm listening to music and hanging out on here :) ... View more

my hobbies inlcude:   baking- esp deserts art and craft things horse riding creative writing and journalling     ... View more

Unexpected compliments are really nice.. I had someone ask for my number and even though I am spoken for, it was a boost to my day because I took it as a compliment. To be honest, I wish we gave compliments more often. Sometimes I think we take the backseat in thinking that people already get enough compliments, but that is not my experience. Given that it has the power to make someone feel so valuable, why not?! ... View more

1. We've experienced some really similar things and so she can really relate and empathize when I talk with her about tough stuff 2. Somehow finds the weirdest videos the internet has to offer and they never fail to make me laugh 3. Has stuck around for almost 10 years at this point ... View more

I'll take with me my laptop, wallet and phone. But I hope there's a fire resistant door on that house. So I can easily get out. ... View more

I am now on mid sem break (already!!!) and thought I'd check in and see how everyone is going?    I hope for all the first years you are surviving and use the break to catch up on some work and treat yourself for surviving so far!    It is so tempting to stay inside especially now it's colder and ignore all the work piling up but I'm trying to learn from previous years and get started on some essays so I don't get overwhelmed later in the semester.    :)  ... View more

In the end, for me it comes down to living a happy, healthy and fulfilling life :) ... View more

Today I offered (and bought) my neighbor a cookie and drink when we went down to the shops together. ... View more

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Hmm~I'd love to go to Switzerland :3 or New Zealand, just to hike up some mountains    Going to the USA would be fun, particularly to San Francisco or New York. Haha, maybe I'll catch myself on Humans of New York (HONY) Who knows?   ... View more

thanks for the response Sophie. I am looking after myself better now. I am doing much better, but I still want her back and get quite upset sometimes. Sometimes about different things, sometimes its about the break up, sometimes its just about the abuse she received. I'm not sure of the extent of it, not that it matters, abuse is abuse, but I cant help think about how severe it may have been and it really gets me quite sad and angry I do hope that in time she will find her way back to me. It is our, or was going to be our anniversary in about 6 weeks. I am thinking about buying her a nice ring or necklace. What do people think? I want to show her I love her and care about her, and our relationship, but I don't want her to think I'm trying to buy her affection or her feel obligated to try to work things out with me because I brought her a gift. I definitely intend to send her flowers, maybe a gift is too much? I don't know. Any advice would be great! Thanks again for the response. ... View more

Why do people have to get emotional here! ;P LOL ;D ... View more

The school is bluffing, they can't get you put in a psychiatric ward- only a doctor can. Also unless your self harming is especially dangerous or an attempt to kill yourself, they generally do not hospitalize people with Borderline Personality Disorder. However you shouldn't be harming at school in front of others, that may be seen as manipulative or inappropriate. They can only detain you in a psychiatric hospital if you are mentally ill and a direct danger to yourself or others, moderate self harm doesn't nessasarily meet that criteria. Self harm is not uncommon in teenagers. ... View more

Personally if she is acting inappropriately on facebook and can't be trusted to act responsibly (posting nude photos etc) then I would remove the facebook. ... View more

I love your taste in music!!! ... View more

Love is you WITHIN , When the purest part of you comes out you find it, deep down - you dont gain affection from external figure , but from within ... Love is more of giving than waiting to get - ... View more

"The greatest glory in living lies not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall." - Nelson Mandella ... View more

Thanks graphiqual for starting this thread   I realised you never know when you would lose someone. It is a different story when your best friend suddenly gives you the cold shoulder to hearing the news that another friend has passed away. So this is very relevant to me right now - knowing how to cope with missing someone.   What I am trying to do: 1) Talk to someone. I am on Lifeline chat atm 2) Keep busy (it is a good distraction like others said) 3) Cry a bit (it is ok to let it out sometimes) 4) Treat yourself, don't make it harder by critising yourself when life gets hard. => Like go and see a movie (I wanna see Monster University)   ... View more