Hi there, This is a bit ridiculous but its causing me so much stress Heres a backstory, So back in year 3 this girl lets call her A, A used to apparently talk about me behind my back, didn't think much of it and since then we have been in classes together, partners in cooking and she sits with my group of friends at recess currently. In June 2016 she unfollowed me on Instagram (wow yes I know thats ridiculous), anyway since then I've always been second guessing stuff she does like if i walk past her and i hear her laugh I always think its about me and stuff like that. One time I thought she was laughing about me when i walked past but I found out later she actually wasn't laughing about me, she mentioned the situation to a group of people my sister was sitting with and my sister realised it wasn't about me and said to A (oh My sister (me) thought you were laughing at her ) which A was not laughing at me. That was the only time 2 years ago that she found out I sometimes question if she's talking about me or not. Anyway I haven't questioned anything she's done since the end of last year, until Saturday. I was scrolling through facebook and A had commented on one of those funny posts tagging one of her friends in it. The post said: When someone you hate is breathing Immediately I think this is about me and when someone you hates breaths what does that even mean you want them to stop breathing? and what die ? (i don't know thats a bit of a stretch) oops anyway As friend that was tagged in the when someone you hate breaths post mentioned something about her brother which made me think that maybe A, tagged her friend in that because her friend has experienced something like that before like because As friend mentioned her brother. the post was not posted by A she must of just found them and thought they were relatable to her and her friend so she tagged her friend in it and the post was posted last year i just found it last week. My sister says its absolutely not about me and that A wouldn't even think of me or I wouldn't even come to her mind or her friends mind when she tagged her friend in this post or any for that matter All the posts A has ever liked, tagged people have never raised any concern just this one But i can't shake the feeling that this isabout me, Its like an elephant is sitting on my chest. Its almost like i know but I also don't.   Also why do I keep thinking this is about me, when I've been wrong like everytime before, for some reason I thought her unfollowing me on instagram sparked something, then I started to question everything she did. Maybe it actually didn't spark anything and everything remained just the same and I just thought it changed. My sister is trying to say that A wants nothing to do with me ( not in a bad way, just in like she doesn't think about me all the time and she wouldn't think about me in a post like this ) its just so hard to realise that i guess, because i still feel the post A tagged her friend in is about me   Do you think its just the anxiety talking? Sorry this is so long I wanted to get it all out   ... View more