Thank you very much @_daisy. I understand when you said that sometimes you wished your BF to be awful. Coincidentally, that fleeting thought comes to me too. I've tried thinking bad about my BF now and then. But it was not the way to deal with the situation. And soon I realize that, someday when everything becomes memories, I will feel happy and thankful coz I was with that man, and a period of my life had him in it. I know he wont disappear but account for a spot in my heart and my mind. I really happy you've found and tried on things you love and shift your concentration on. It's like getting positive energy from you knowing that and it's very helpful. Actually I am now still in recluse mode, but my fight against the inner of myself keeps going. Hope the strong version of me win. Maybe none of us is prepared to suffer from this, but Thank you again, @_daisy, for becoming my company on this growing-up-from-pain journey.
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Hi, I am experiencing the almost exact situation like you, and I feel like I read my own story when seeing your post. Slight difference is he and I are from different countries. I have not got over him yet, still desperately want to be with him. There is not many friends who I can share my feelings and most advice I got are get myself busy with anything, hobbies, work, study, exersice,etc The goal is make your mind occupied with other things that prevent you from having time to think about the guy. My boyfriend does have work that make him busy, while I am currently unemployed and feel very unmotivated to do anything. I think about him all the time, and the more I miss him, the more I feel lonely. I know what I should do to get out of the situation, even before being told by my advisers. Only I just dont have any motivation to commence. Sorry I could not help you or give any good practices even though I am facing the same issue. Hope you'll be strong and find some solutions that work for you and feel better over the time.
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