Hello. I am pretty new and not sure if I am doing the right thing with this, but here it goes. If I have done the wrong thing I'll delete this. I am so sorry if this was a mistake. I don't know how to forgive someone and not over something small. I feel so guilty because this person, I can see where they came from in doing this thing. But what they did took something, my choice, away from me. Completely. Not only that, it exposed me to something I was and am not ready to deal with, identified my issue in the most public manner and now can't be taken seriously. I am being vague, I know. I just don't know what I really can talk about here without getting into trouble. This person means maybe the most to me and I want to feel better. I want to learn to forgive and talk to ppl again. But I feel guilty for being so angry but also like I can't talk about it all because it is really me who is a bad person. Is there stages to forgiving someone? Or should I look to talking this out with the person even if they can't understand? I don't want to hurt them or lose someone. Sorry about my long post.
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