Thank you for all your replies, @ecla34 and @Jane_Rose. I have realised that these feelings of change are natural, and so ive researched ways to cope with such change like focus on the positives and how even the worst outcome of that change will turn out ok on the end. Even though these changes like going to college and moving out are scary for me at the moment, i'm starting to look at them like a very exciting experience. All your advice has helped alot so i appreciate your replies! For the self care routine for stress, i like running on my treadmill at home. I found that through my exams it helped me think things through and calm me down when things got too much so i do that almost every day!
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Hey everyone, I just come on here for some advice as im stuggling with alot of change in my life right now. Ive recently left school and i am working until i go back to college to study something else but i have never known what to do career wise. Along with that my worksplace is always full of drama and it can get stressful! Since leaving school ive notice my friendships with alot of people are getting tested too, including one of my bestest friends ever which im getting really upset about. Alot of people that i used to talk to have all changed because everyones going off and doing different things and im just not a fan of change anyway. I would say i have 4 friends and only one im close too but im finding it quite straining with her too but she has alot on because she just dropped out of uni and started a full time job so we hardly speak now considering we used to have 3 hour long convos on the phone talking about random things, i can barely get a text back now. Im also planning on moving out which is a big stressor and even worse it is with this friend! Alot if things are changing right now and im seriously struggling and i dont know what to do or make things easier for me and its getting me down! I would appreciate any advice or even if someone just read this. And if you did read it, thamk you for your time!
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