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FunTurtle
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25-01-2021
23-03-2021
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02-02-2021
03:50 AM
Hey, it's FunTurtle I wasn't brave enough to try since if I accidentally said something mean to them, my sister would glare at me. I'm worried that she will do the same thing if I stand up to them
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26-01-2021
10:01 AM
3 Kudos
Thanks for the support! Lately, I've been trying distancing. And I have another friend who I can hang out with, though occasionally since she lives far from me.
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26-01-2021
06:02 AM
I feel you. I used to play a lot with my sister, but now, we hardly talk. You could argue about how she's a junior in high school, but when it comes to my "friends", she talks to them more often, and even laughs.
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26-01-2021
05:57 AM
Mine is sort of complicated. I feel left out from my friends since they hang out with my sister more. Then, they tried to control me. I am not good with confrontations, so if anybody has advice, please share it on my thread.
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26-01-2021
05:54 AM
1 Kudo
" I feel uncomfortable when I hang out with you guys. You see, when we were little, we all hung out together. When we had a conversation, I felt like you guys left me out. When you guys or my older sister said something, you guys would laugh and even respond with things like “That’s so funny!” or “Good idea!”. But when I said something, you guys would ignore it or even say stuff like “ Did you say something?”. It made me feel left out and uncomfortable, sometimes even lonely. Then we started playing on Roblox, and it felt even worse. I felt like you guys started forcing me to do what you guys wanted me to do when I was already enjoying what I was doing. And when I would go to bed after my cutoff, you guys would play other games with my sister, and you guys laughed more. When I played with my school friends, I felt more comfortable. When I played with you guys, though, I felt lonely and distant. I also started thinking about how if I wasn’t born, nothing would change since you guys still ignore me. I remember telling my friend, and she said to confront you guys. I did, but nothing changed. I even wanted to delete our group chat and your contacts, but I felt uncomfortable doing so since I was worried about somebody finding out. Then a thought came into my mind: the only reason we’re friends is because our parents are friends. It made me feel more uncomfortable since I couldn’t open up and unfriend you guys. My mind flooded with sadness and loneliness, and I felt even more uncomfortable around you guys, just wanting to open up about it. I did multiple things just to get your attention, but not a single thing was thanked. So you see, I’ve wanted to tell you both for so long, and I should’ve a long time ago." I wrote these very words on a google doc a while back, to confront my friends. Toxic relationships. It's hard going through them. Especially if you aren't good through confrontations. Do you have a friend who takes advantage of you? Do your friends ditch you for someone? If so, you may have a toxic relationship. No worries, I have created this forum for anybody who wants to open up about a toxic relationship or give advice to someone. I've been through one that I am still going through. As far back as I remember, my "friends" have ignored me to hang out with my older sister. They then started trying to get me to do what they wanted. It made me feel lonely and uncomfortable around them. And they have the nerve to text me over 100 times a day (I am not joking, they do this.) Unfortunately, I am not good with confrontations, so I am stuck with them until after college. My only plan is to ignore them after college and not invite them to my house. If you have any other better ideas though, put them down below.
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