Hmm.. personally, I'm usually kind of blunt, I would just say straight away if I want to do something or not. I think for the most part, people will realize that stating an opinion in the negative (i.e. i don't want to do something), is not as big of a deal as some people may think.
So you could always just message back saying you're down for anything as long as it's not X, Y, and Z. Or just give a few suggestions on what you would want to do, and ask if she's interested.
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