So as I said I was having trouble. Just before christmas we met each other to resolve what happened face to face and by the end of it we were walking off holding hands getting back together. For about 2 weeks everything seemed to work out well, then he went on a cruise with his family for 10 days after which time he got back and after a day of chatting he blocked me from facebook and won't return phone calls or texts.
It has been 2 weeks now I finally stopped trying to text him a few days ago. I don't know what has happened I haven't gotten an explanation. All I know is I came out to my parents whilst he was on his trip and as I told him whilst my parents accepted it I hadn't told them i was dating the guy of my dreams yet simply because I needed to give my mother time to accept I like guys and would be dating them. I think this might have been a contentious point for him.
What should I do :( I really miss my sam
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Thanks for that. It has been 2 weeks now; we are communicating again but he doesn't want to see me because he is afraid I might spend time with him again then throw it all away. So i have decided to back off a little and give him some space for a bit. However I'll definately look through those links you added.
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First of all he is gay and I am bi.
We met on grindr and started chatting. After several days of chatting and then video chats he both liked each other and we organised to have a date together which was just a picnic at the beachfront. During this date we both turned out to really liked each other and ended up jumping into the deep end, relationship wise and on this date we both skipped several steps of getting to know each other and ended up kissing I said I really liked him and he loved me asking me to be his boyfriend.
Confused and scared I decied to end the date early feeling sick in the stomach. Later that night I was still feeling sick and scared mainly because I had realised I was wasn't ready to be that deep into a relationship to be labeled a boyfriend especially after one date, feeling scared and anxious I couldn't face him so I ended up messaging him I needed to slow down and I needed time to figure out if I really liked him in the same way or if I had become swept up in the thought of someone really liking me and wanting to date me.
Unfortunately he didn't take this well and thought I was trying to break up with him permenantly, however we decided to try to stay friends because he still wanted me in his life and I wanted him in mine because he was such a kind person. The next day however when I tried to delete my grindr account (because I wasn't in interested in the app anymore after what happened) a friend of his spotted my account was active and messaged him and he blew up at me and left me as a friend. He has now re added me as a fiend on facebook and I am trying to chat with him trying to move on from what happened. I still like him and with time I wouldn't mind a relationship blossoming between us but at a slower more natural pace.
Should I try to pursuit a relationship with him, should I give it more time.
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