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[CHAT] Body Image

It’s summer here in Australia, and with summer comes pressures and expectations about what your body should look like and what you should be doing. These pressures can come from lots of places – from yourself, to your mates, to the ads you see on TV. People think that they have to get the perfect "bikini body", or that it's time to lose weight, or that they just need to look their best when they're down at the beach with their friends.

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Does society (and ourselves) put unreasonable expectations on us? How can we overcome this? How can we stay positive about our body?

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All of this can be a bit overwhelming and confusing, so join us here on Monday 27th February at 8pm AEDT, or click 'Reply' to start the chat now!

roseisnotaplant
roseisnotaplantPosted 22-02-2017 04:40 PM

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Trikle Trade
Trikle TradePosted 10-06-2017 05:21 PM

this is the tyre body.

 
Cantcope
CantcopePosted 09-06-2017 08:36 PM
I don't think I like much at all about my body, my eyes probably!
 
Asche
AschePosted 27-02-2017 10:17 PM

Aaand that's me out. Gonna scurry off to bed before my headache picks up again. Night everyone!

 
Asche
AschePosted 27-02-2017 08:15 PM

Hey everyone! Sorry I haven't been around much lately- I caught a bug off someone at work and I've been spending the past week sick as a dog Smiley Sad.

 

puppy

 
FootyFan26
FootyFan26Posted 27-02-2017 07:59 PM

Hey everyone,

 

Tonight we're going to be discussing an issue that is big in society today, body image and body confidence. 

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AThis can be a difficult topic so if at all you find this conversation distressing or you feel like you need to talk to someone, please don’t hesitate to call lifeline (13 11 12) or Kids Helpline (1800 55 1800).  If you are new or need a quick reminder of our community guidelines, you can find them here.

 

Looking forward to this convo tonight!  Definitely going to be interesting 🙂

 
 
Ben-RO
Ben-ROPosted 27-02-2017 08:02 PM

Hey everybody! So lovely to see you all tonight! .... well your avatars anyway 

 

 

 
 
lokifish
lokifishPosted 27-02-2017 08:01 PM

Heya all! I probably won't stick around because it's a billion degrees in my room right now, but wanted to pop in and say hi 😛

 
 
 
FootyFan26
FootyFan26Posted 27-02-2017 08:02 PM
Hey @lokifish @May_! Keep cool, it is pretty warm tonight.
 
 
 
Alison5
Alison5Posted 27-02-2017 08:03 PM

Hey everyone

 
 
 
 
roseisnotaplant
roseisnotaplantPosted 27-02-2017 08:04 PM

Hellooo everybody 😄

 
 
 
 
 
Clockwork
ClockworkPosted 27-02-2017 08:05 PM
Evening everyone, thought I might join in tonight. 🙂
 
 
 
 
 
Ben-RO
Ben-ROPosted 27-02-2017 08:06 PM

Hey @Clockwork ðŸ™‚ 

 
 
 
 
 
Ben-RO
Ben-ROPosted 27-02-2017 08:12 PM

What does a healthy body image look like?

 
 It's a different thing for everyone i think. Perhaps there's no one definition of healthy body image? But perhaps it's just not being to hard on yourself, not putting to much value in how you look, loving how you look a bit too? Hmmm there's so many answers to this one!
 
For me it's just about accepting who i am and the body i am in rather than comparing too much 😛 
 
 
 
 
 
 
FootyFan26
FootyFan26Posted 27-02-2017 08:17 PM

What does a healthy body image look like?

 

Accepting yourself for who you are and not letting your flaws get to you.  And I guess it's also looking at things that can be changed and realising that sometimes it might take a while to change things sometimes and you have to be patient with yourself.

 
 
 
 
 
roseisnotaplant
roseisnotaplantPosted 27-02-2017 08:20 PM

Oh that's interesting @May_. So instead of saying, 'Man, I wish I looked more like her,' you might say, 'Wow, she looks nice today.' Or something?

 
 
 
 
 
May_
May_Posted 27-02-2017 08:22 PM

@roseisnotaplantyeah thank you for putting that into potential thoughts to have 🙂 I think that is really important. Another one could be maybe something like instead of "wow how does she look like that I want to look like that but I never will" you could think "that person must eat healthy and exercise so that motivates me to take care of my body"

 
 
 
 
 
loves netball
loves netballPosted 27-02-2017 08:24 PM

I think it's important to remember that Barbie and superman aren't ideal for what women and men should look like

 
 
 
 
 
roseisnotaplant
roseisnotaplantPosted 27-02-2017 08:27 PM

Absolutely @loves netball. It worries me that characters like that are marketed to younger kids. Do you think it's unhealthy having that like 'perfect' image put into the heads of five-year-olds? I've never really thought about it like that before.

 
 
 
 
 
Ben-RO
Ben-ROPosted 27-02-2017 08:29 PM

Oooh that's a good question @roseisnotaplant and kinda ties into our next discussion question: 

 

Where do you think the pressure to "have a good body for summer" -or just a particular body image- comes from?
 
 
 
 
 
Alison5
Alison5Posted 27-02-2017 08:33 PM

Where do you think the pressure to "have a good body for summer" -or just a particular body image- comes from?

 

Without hesitation, I have to say the media. Everywhere we look is images of unrealistic models with the perfect bodies, stick thin legs and blemish-free faces.

Even having these endless filters on our devices for photos is only supporting this industry and idea. It's taken over society and is consuming all of us, especially our younger generations who are growing up with technology.

 
 
 
 
 
Ben-RO
Ben-ROPosted 27-02-2017 08:33 PM

haha sorry @roseisnotaplant! I think i accidentally stole your question, ooops

 
 
 
 
 
May_
May_Posted 27-02-2017 08:33 PM
Where do you think the pressure to "have a good body for summer" comes from?

I think this can mostly be attributed to the media, fashion industry, celebrity culture, etc.

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