Support for when it's time to leave CW: Abusive relationships

This is a thread for people who have left abusive relationships. It's a way to leave a message of support for other people who are thinking about leaving and to let them know some of the important things that will help them get through this incredibly tough time.

What would you say to support someone thinking about leaving, or starting to write their safety plan?

If you are in an abusive relationship, or you don't feel safe, get hurt emotionally or physically, it's important to call or chat to 1800 respect by clicking here. There's a quick exit button on the top right hand corner so you can exit the page and just go to a google search page really quickly if you need to :).

ALSO if you're at risk of being harmed right now, call emergency services (000) they are non-judgemental and helpful and they will always take you seriously.  You can also have a look at a pretty cool interactive safety planner here although it is based in America, so some of the things will be a bit different for us Aussies.