Uhm...Help Maybe?
Okay so I have a large friend circle and in that circle are a few lesbians and the rest are striaght. So I've got a boyfriend and i've been with him for over 2 years now and earlier i kissed one of the lesbians on a dare and i didnt hate it but i wasnt sure if i liked it what do i do? I probably shouldnt worry about it, but i just need reassurance that its nothing or some advice on how to handle this feeling of confusion please?
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Hey @FenraiSicktaWat,
It's normal to be question your sexuality, and as @Kit and @N1ghtW1ng have said, it's part of growing up and discovering your identity. And growing up is confusing anyway!
It may be that you just got swept up in the moment and kissed your friend. Being attracted to the same sex is something that will happen naturally. Have you felt confident in your relationship with your current boyfriend?
Lahna
Hey @FenraiSicktaWat, thanks for sharing your story with us.
Growing up, exploring relationships, and discovering ourselves is certainly a confusing time. This is a lot to manage at once and it's understandable you are feeling a little unsure. It is quite common for people to go through a time when they question their feelings, this is a normal part of growing up and exploring one's sexuality, but only you can know your sexual preference.
So while we can't tell you what you feel or what your preference is, ReachOut does have some articles on sexuality that you might find helpful:
If you don't normally feel attracted to girls, then it might not mean anything, only that you don't mind kissing girls. Which doesn't have to be a bad thing.
You could try talking to someone about these feelings as they might be able to give you some more personal advice on the matter.
It's not always easy when to question your sexuality but the choice is always yours.
Let us know how you go 🙂
