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I thought that my girlfriend cared about me like she is the only person i have/had. 1 year ago my step mom kicked me out of the house and my dad let her. I have lived with my friends but life has just been falling to sh*t since and idk what to do. I love my girlfriend and i dont feel like she loves me and it hurts she has left me on opened for over 2 hours and then on delivered for 2 hours and then she sends messages to the group chat were in then opens mine. Idk what to do it just hurts to know that the 1 person i thought i had doesn't care enough to even message me. And i can see when she is online and it hurts knowing she doesnt really care about me.
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Hey @Thistle_Jellyfish , welcome to the ReachOut community, its great to have you here 😊
I'm really sorry to hear about everything you've been going through. It sounds like you've had an incredibly tough year, especially with getting kicked out of your house by your step mum and having to navigate life on your own at such a young age. That's a lot to handle, and it's completely understandable that you're feeling overwhelmed and unsure about what to do next.
It's also really tough to feel like the person you love and trust isn't there for you in the way you need them to be. It's natural to feel hurt and disappointed when you're not getting the support and attention you need from your girlfriend. Have you considered talking to her about how you're feeling? Sometimes having an open and honest conversation can help clarify things and bring you closer together.
In the meantime, is there anything you enjoy doing that helps to distract you and brings you some comfort? We have a bunch of articles on self-care activities here, if you’re needing some ideas!
Please remember that you're not alone in this, and there are people who care about you and want to support you through these tough times. If you ever need someone to talk to or just want to vent, we are all here for you
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That sounds really painful for you, I'm so sorry you're feeling this way.
Have you tried talking to your girlfriend about how this has made you feel, and about your needs when it comes to communication? It's okay to reach out and express this to her if you feel your needs aren't being met.
