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do you guys think she's trying to avoid me or no?

so idk if shes trying to avoid me or not but the other day at work i was giving people there food at their table & when i went look over i saw the girl i used to liked back in high school just sitting at the table with her boyfriend & i just stood there looking at her from afar & she was looking at me too. but then i looked away & went back to work. i saw her boyfriend buying food there 2 times but i guess she doesnt wanna go with him because maybe she doesnt wanna see me. 

 

but then the next day when i went out with my friends at the mall i guess she was there with her boyfriend & was talking about me because when i turn around i saw him looking at me but then looked away.

 

 

 

Justin_dufner
Justin_dufnerPosted 07-08-2018 01:03 PM

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thehealthymail
thehealthymailPosted 13-08-2018 08:11 AM

You be got to  ask yourself this question. "What do I want  from  her?"" Why do I think  she's  avoiding me ".

If you want  anything from  her ,you better  go  talk to  her   and  stop  staring who knows  maybe  your  staring  is making her uncomfortable. 


@Justin_dufner wrote:

so idk if shes trying to avoid me or not but the other day at work i was giving people there food at their table & when i went look over i saw the girl i used to liked back in high school just sitting at the table with her boyfriend & i just stood there looking at her from afar & she was looking at me too. but then i looked away & went back to work. i saw her boyfriend buying food there 2 times but i guess she doesnt wanna go with him because maybe she doesnt wanna see me. 

 

but then the next day when i went out with my friends at the mall i guess she was there with her boyfriend & was talking about me because when i turn around i saw him looking at me but then looked away.

 

 

 


 

 
 
 
Jess1-RO
Jess1-ROPosted 13-08-2018 10:28 AM

Hi @Justin_dufner,

It's always awful feeling like someone is avoiding you or laughing at you. I can imagine it is even harder when this girl was someone important to you in high school. I'm really sorry to hear this is something you are having to face regularly with them continuing to come to where you work.

 

Do you have any friends or family you have spoken to about this? If so, what did they say about it?

 

I also just wanted to let you know I have just removed a couple of duplicates of your last post Smiley Happy

 
 
thehealthymail
thehealthymailPosted 13-08-2018 10:15 AM

My man Justin, you should  really  try your best  not to let  stuff like  this  worry you. These things  are really  insignificant  in your life  right now. 

Focus on  your  work   this  girl is  like  history. 

 
 
Justin_dufner
Justin_dufnerPosted 13-08-2018 08:56 AM

yeah but that day when i was at working and i walked over to the table and i saw her looking over at the front counter while she was sitting at the table then i looked at her from afar but then i looked away and went back to work. so im not sure if she doesnt wanna see me anymore because i keep seeing her boyfriend buying foood at the place i work at and whenever i see him he it looks like hes laughing at me.

 
Esperanza67
Esperanza67Posted 07-08-2018 07:03 PM
Hey @Justin_dufner, hmm, it's hard to say (mainly because I have yet to meet her), so I can't really give you much advice on that, sorry about that :(. How did this situation make you feel?

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