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Nightruner23
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19-12-2018
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19-12-2018
02:12 PM
@dog_lover94 @Sunflower18 @RockPaperScissorsMelon @scared01 and everyone else I was not not that along ago just before dad passed away mum told me she has kidney failure she thought she had told me and I shouldn't have found out when we were the place to let dads ashes go I was in shock we just lost dad and now mum has kidney failure we don't know what % is it at but mum won't do dysis like dad there was so much shit they said to him that was bulshit tomorrow morning I will know more the year has been shit for me so that's a update I might not come back for a long time I don't know yet than you for helping me through the tough times
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04-12-2018
05:35 PM
Trigger Warning He was talking about his dad how he passed away and his brother passed away as well like it was 2 weeks ago he said that I think he knew it was time for him to go I'm just going to get the medals off my dad's sister which is pissing me off and the family it was promised to me by dad in 2 weeks time we are planning to sue her for it it's the only way we are going to get them. Plus she didn't give a fuck about dad she had what she wanted the money and the medals she didn't even cry at the place where dad passed even the nurse come to look and walked away it was fake no tears and nothing and she was pushing us to have a service it's not what he wanted he wanted his body to be burned and spread in the country where he loved
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04-12-2018
12:19 AM
1 Kudo
@annabethxchase @mrmusic and everyone else thanks for the support we are having trouble to get the stuff off my dad's side of the things I only recently found out that my dad's dad was a world war 2 vet my dad was going to surprise me with the his dad's medals I didn't know that ATM because dad asked me if I wanted them down from qld where they were with my dad's sister had them I didn't know at all they were for me and the sword of my dad's as well my mum told me I felt guilty because of it dad was waiting for me to say yes and it would have been with his :( and we are struggling for money as well we need dad's sister to give us the money that is dad's from when his grandma passed she didn't want to give anything to him at all
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03-12-2018
12:28 PM
1 Kudo
Oh sorry I must have missed read on completely my fault sorry @cheesebruger
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03-12-2018
12:24 PM
@sarced01 he passed away at 9:30 am I cried when I seen there not moving at all he had a nurse and he went pacefull even mum cired
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03-12-2018
06:40 AM
@scared01and everyone else this might be a trigger Warning so I know you I don't know how to word this but I will try my best to update you all on dad. A few days ago dad was having trouble breathing and walking and bent over really bad he went to the hospital at 31/11/18 or 1/12/18 later that night he was moved out on the ward he was in which was b which is renal failure staright into Inc ( Intensive care unit ) he has a breathing mask on to help him he was hooked up on the machine for his dysis. This is where the trigger Warning will happen so heads up! We went in to see dad we were greated by a lot of doctors around some we're specialist and no one the doctors come to us and explain if we knew that was going on and what will happen. We did know what was going on. The doctor explained what they are going to do with him 1 was they op on him to remove the blood clots in his legs but he won't live or they let nature take it's place. We had to take it hour by hour .They tried to remove the blood clots elaier at 2/12/18 but it went South so quickly later we had a call at 5:30 am to say that dad has a new problem which is bleeding from the backend it is part of the renal failure and the last stage before he pass for good and he is trashing about because it's part of the renal failure. The doctor said he has never seen someone go down so quickly like dad. He won't live for more two day's so today he could pass away 3/12/18 or 4/12/18 no later than tomorrow so yeah it's going to be hard to say goodbye to him I do love him so much but I wish I could tell him that but he is sedated so he is not aware of anything or people or family around him he is in a sleep and he looks pacefull when you see him I'm think I'm more glad he is not in pain anymore I will miss him so much I'm seeing him today so I'm going to very emotional. We are going to spread him in the country where he wanted to be spread I have many memories of my dad and me doing things after a while I might get a tattoo for my dad for inprisng me I will miss you dad 3/12/18 or 4/12/18 when he pass
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03-12-2018
06:07 AM
1 Kudo
Oh @Cheeseburger that's no good hopefully you will find a new school and cope well and have no builes. How are you coping with the breakup?
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25-10-2018
09:27 PM
1 Kudo
Oh that's good to hear I'm glad he makes you feel happy how has school going?@cheesebruger
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25-10-2018
09:25 PM
Still a bit upset can't sleep that well during the nights it's been close 2 weeks when Dad was admitted to the hospital I'm taking it day by day and hopefully get out of the house soon it's getting wroser ever day. @mrmusic My boss is easy going if I need anything I let him know Hey @scared01 not to good
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18-10-2018
10:33 PM
1 Kudo
Hi @chesseburger it's so good to hear from you I'm glad you are going ok hopefully your appointment goes ok also glad you found another person and are in a relationship good to hear 😊 give it time for the relationship to meture and it will be a good relationship to be in
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18-10-2018
10:29 PM
1 Kudo
Thanks @scared01 @mrmusic Update on dad he is very upset that it has happened to him and he is really sorry because he wants to see me grow breathing is better than before can't walk far have to push him in the chair most of the time I went to my job agency person had a talk to him told him about the home situation and about my mum he told me to go so to centerlink to change shit so she has no control over me. Seen a social worker who guided me to look for a house or a place for me to rent so tomorrow I'm going to tell my boss about what's happening at home
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07-10-2018
05:40 PM
@scared01 @mrmusic My dad went to the hospital by ambulance the night before and yesterday he went to the hospital again didn't sleep I was up with dad until 2 or 4 am just seen dad in the hospital he is gotten much worse then yesterday he is not there and looks like he wants to go to sleep or pass away :(
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02-10-2018
10:27 PM
I was talking to dad just a few hours ago he might able to get the kidney operation he needs to lose weight and a few other things they didn't say no this time so hopefully when the time comes he can get it atm he is doing to well I still look after him and do all the things for him @scared01
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02-10-2018
10:24 PM
2 Kudos
Hey @buunywalks it different for everyone early signs for me is I got get bored with things 2 my sleeping pattern so all shit 3 is a lot of stress when it happens I listen to music go for a walk or talk to friends
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01-10-2018
11:24 PM
1 Kudo
Hey @scared01 how has things been since we last spoke? Sorry for not taking to you for a long time had a lot of things come up hopefully things clam down
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01-10-2018
11:18 PM
I mostly play games during my time but now that I got work I do that and get some money and kind of helps me forget about shit at home. I'm old enough to get out over 18 I don't have any where else dad is a support he has helped with getting the social worker which we are still waiting once we talk to the social worker me and dad should have a better idea what's going to happen and maybe how long it might take to get me out of the house and I talk to him about things like what's happening and he tells me what happening with him. Plus there is one other thing I want to do as a hobby which is hunting got to get my gun licence and get a hunting rifle I'm looking forward to do that
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20-09-2018
03:44 PM
Thanks @Erin-RO the problem is I have tried before and she goes off at me for it the problem is she is stuck in the 80s or 90 era when things were different thing but she won't accept that I want to do things in my life and not be chained down and she won't come to the generation we are at plus I'm getting help though a service to help me get out of the house once I'm out of the house dad might stay over because she is going to go off her head and probably won't accept me but to the house but I have had it I'm not happy in the family I want to do things when I want to.
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19-09-2018
01:11 AM
I'm going to put this out here this has been at me for a long time I have told my dad about it even he agree with this. I know I'm in a very abusive relationship with my mum and its very sad to she that Here is a list of things my mum would do. check on me all the time to see where you are, what you're doing and who you're with. She won't let me go and do anything for myself This one happened a few times privately, by attacking your intelligence capabilities The list goes on its not good my dad side knows what mum has said to me my dad told them. The pokies she plays has changed her a lot and shes goes takes out on me when if I was helping dad but she won't see that.
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19-09-2018
12:52 AM
I don't talk to mum that much really about anything she gets really angry quickly plus we are not a happy family the way things have been happening with my and dad and the attitude from mum nagging me to do this everyday I could have lost the job if took her advice. I have got support for a disability agency to help me get in work and to look for a unit or something for me to get away from home and the stress from it all. Thanks scared01 and to answer your question @Bee not really she thinks she helping me but in reality it's hurting me if she let me go completely and have faith I will be fine out in the world by self
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19-09-2018
12:42 AM
1 Kudo
Hello @Cheeseburger haven't talked in a long time how is everything going
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20-08-2018
10:36 PM
@taylor_ro yeah 8 have got friends that I talk to about it 2 in particular makes sure I'm always alright and lights the mood up with me when make around. I have used the kids helpline they didn't do much I felt worser then when I called. Hey @scared01 mum knows what's going on with me and how worried I am about dad thanks @scared01
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19-08-2018
10:17 PM
Not at the moment but if anything happens I will let you's know @Brendos94 @Bee not that good I had a really bad cold got over it dad has a infection in his chest Me had a mental breakdown because my dad said he might give up and not fight it anymore he is at his limit plus my dog last night had a bone in his tooth that was jamed in so he is fine now atm everything is gone to hell.
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15-08-2018
10:14 PM
3 Kudos
You are not a boring person @scared01 you help people on this site ❤️
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15-08-2018
10:08 PM
Hello everyone so sorry for not being back tbh I forgot about this place Update on everything 1 dad called on the road 2 broken 5 ribs 3 was in hospital seen him a few nights ago it hit me hard he is home but he is very out of it 4 I have a cold or something bad which is killing my throat to do anything 5 got another tattoo done I'm getting a sleep test done because I feel very tired after I slept and constantly falling asleep without realising it @Bee @scared01 @Brendos94
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14-07-2018
08:30 PM
Sorry to hear that @LittleBear__ I'm glad you can get inspired by the bands that's really good :). What else makes you feel motivated
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14-07-2018
08:25 PM
1 Kudo
I will @scared01 I got tafe Monday so it should keep my mind off things for a bit
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14-07-2018
08:23 PM
2 Kudos
Thanks @Bee @scared01 @Bree-RO I have been helping around the house with things and making sure dad is fine
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14-07-2018
07:53 PM
4 Kudos
Hey @scared01 my back is better now thanks I haven't been on lately but I'm not going to be for a bit because my dad's mum just passed away today so I'm going over to the funeral for moral support for dad and to make sure he is alright and let him know that I'm there to listen so I'm off tafe on Wednesday this coming on for 5 days just to make sure I thought I would let everyone know the reason why I won't be online @Bee @Brendos94 @mrmusic ❤️
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07-07-2018
06:33 PM
Hey @scared01 I'm going ok getting anyyoyed with my eyes but there not much I can I pulled a muscle in my lower back somehow I don't know what I did but it is very sore so I'm taking it easy and resting. How have you been @scared01
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