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oh @litgym that sounds really frustrating! I don't blame you for being upset it seems like there was a lot of big negative emotions going around from all sides. How's it going now?  ... View more

A pretty big nah from over here as well   I think it's super sweet to do something for your SO for Valentine's, but it's also really commercial and can be a bit over-hyped. I guess i feel like it's awesome as long as it doesn't become forced or like people have to go through the motions to check a relationship box off.  Oh man Galentine's day!! My sister used to do that with her friends before she started dating her partner, and it was actually pretty cute! They had dinner and gave each other flowers and chocolates so wholesome   It's a little annoying having relationships as the norm being shoved down your throat (Singles Awareness Day whoop!) There's nothing wrong with not being in a relationship! :D Different strokes for different folks ;) Anyone who tries to make you feel bad about it needs to find a hobby lol ... View more

What were some ways you saved water? Do you still follow these now? I used to have a timer for showering to try save water and i have to admit i'm nowhere near as strict with it now! I was reflecting recently on how quickly it seems everyone stopped actively trying to save water once the restrictions were lifted. My neighbour pretty much has the sprinklers going every day and it's still so strange to me! I don't think the front nature strip needs to be fluffy and bright green in February! Just me? We used to have a bucket in the shower to catch the cold water while the shower's warming up but we always forgot to empty it in the garden Best of intentions and all that jazz lol ... View more

Hey @Mara, Welcome to RO! It sounds like you're dealing with some pretty frustrating emotions right now. :( It really can be so hard sometimes to speak up for what you want and what you think, and so easy to kick yourself for your choices.Do you feel judged a lot by your family for what you say? I'm glad to hear you've been able to do things with friends and for you recently though! Does it feel like something's changed there? My advice for building self-confidence is super cheesy (warning you in advance) but i've found it helpful to find traits/strengths/quirks that i like about myself and using them as a sort of foundation, you know? It helps make me feel good about myself as a person and nurtures my self-confidence. Also pretty helpful for combating negative thoughts too Do you think that could be helpful for you too? I know different things work for different people though! ... View more

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Hey @heyitsbea, welcome to RO! It's really brave of you to talk about what you've been going through recently   From what you've described, i don't blame you for feeling overwhelmed, especially as everyone else seems to have high expectations for you as well. Sometimes it can be really hard to be gentle with ourselves when it comes to school and study, particularly when we feel we have to consistently perform at our best! As much as we'd like to always meet our own standards, we're only human and sometimes fall short.    I was wondering if your school had a counsellor you could talk to? They might have some advice for you for dealing with school stress and managing expectations Would you want to talk to your parents and teachers about the additional pressure they're putting on you by expecting you to do well?   I know when you're worried and stressed about study, you can feel a lot of guilt when you're not working. That being said, often having a break to relax, have fun, or engage in hobbies actually increases your productivity. It's hard to constantly study when you're burnt out and feel empty!   I hope everything goes okay on your first day back! Please let us know how it goes it you'd like xx   ... View more

oh @litgym , i hope you're doing as well as possible right now xx Was this something that happened during your gp appointment? Here for you ... View more

Hey @SA123, just wanted to check in and see how everything is going for you? I can't imagine how frustrating and scary this must be for you.  I was just wondering what you thought about @TOM-RO's suggestions? If you were looking for advice for approaching a conversation about getting help with your mum, do you think it would be worth contacting Family Drug Support Australia? They have a support line for family members of those struggling with alcohol and other drugs. I'm pretty sure though that it's not a free phone line unfortunately :( I hope you're doing okay xx   ... View more

I'm glad today's been a little bit better for you @redhead what were you planning on doing for the rest of the evening? ... View more

Hey @redhead, i'm so sorry you've had to go through such a rough time recently :( How have things been for you today? Thinking of you xx ... View more

@litgym that does sound pretty confusing, I hope everything goes okay for you with your gp this afternoon ... View more

That sounds really hard to deal with @scared01 :( Even though, as you said, they might not mean it, having someone constantly bring you down with what they say sounds so draining and disheartening, i can't imagine how frustrating this must be for you I hear your concerns when it comes to attending the support groups, it can be hard to put our hesitations into words sometimes, can't it? Especially when it's our gut telling us something. Was there anything we could do for you, to help you feel a bit better? Really proud of you as well, for reaching 6 and 12 months i'm so glad you're here xx ... View more

Hello @roseisnotaplant!!  A nice way to find to find a volunteering opportunity could be to attend some volunteer info sessions with any organisations that interest you! It can be a cool way to meet some current volunteers/staff, see what's what, and find out about any available roles :D  ... View more

@Cheeseburger that does sounds really painful, especially as you've been supportive of his sexuality. I really admire the courage you're showing If you ever feel like you need some additional support from the community for your relationship, please feel welcome to make a thread to talk about it too xx ... View more

I'm going to echo everyone here and say i love this thread idea @dncinginthedirt! (i'm a fan of sticky-note reminders too :P ) There've been some really awesome routine ideas too that i might just pinch ;) In the morning i usually like to have a shower, do my makeup and have coffee before i get started with my day or talk too much with people. I find it's a really peaceful way to transition from sleepiness to wakefulness (or dezombify really).  I'm such a night owl that i struggle to set myself a nighttime routine, but i usually try to stretch before going to bed. I've been trying to work in some meditation as well (results do vary :P) ... View more

This is such a lovely post @BunnyWalks  I really agree with you, even if things don't go exactly to plan, being kind to yourself and accepting that you can only control certain things in life is a really helpful mindset. Though definitely not an easy one!  I hope this year brings you the change you are looking for ... View more

hey @Cheeseburger i'm sorry to hear that you and your boyfriend split :( that's sounds like a very rough situation to deal with right now. I just wanted to say i'm proud of you though, for finding a label that works for you and that you feel comfortable with ... View more

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Okie doke guys! I'm going to head off for now :D I just wanted to thank you all for your participation tonight! it's been a blast having a chat with you all and reading your answers  @missep  @Esperanza67  @Ladybug @scared01 @unwind  @nyke  @litgym @DIVYA  (SORRY if i've forgotten anyone, i love you too!! ) Feel free everyone to keep chatting and responding to questions, i'm interested to see what everyone is up to getting back to school! Most of all, GOOD LUCK WITH THE NEW SCHOOL YEAR! You'll slay it! xx   ... View more

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What do you usually bring or buy for lunch? I am verrrrrry lazy when it comes to packing lunches. So i usually take a bunch of snacks to munch on in between classes like cherry tomatoes, muesli bars etc. Sometimes i make a sandwich or bring leftovers but i've had containers explode in my bag before and i'm not keen to repeat the experience! So yeah, lazy :P I should work on packing proper lunches haha ... View more

Sloth buddies! @litgym     they are light blue with little love hearts around the sloths, which is perfect because they represent how much i love sloths hmmm..... looks like there're some socks on the sloth sock market i need to track down ;) ... View more

and now... the time we've all been waiting for.... the most intense and serious question of the evening!!!!! What do you usually bring or buy for lunch?     ... View more

@Esperanza67i admire the heck out of you for being able to actually maintain a bullet journal lol they're so awesome, but man do i never do what i plan lol ... View more